Hello everyone:
I'm new here and thrilled to death to find a lap band community who knows what I am going through.
I haven't been banded yet, but I have completed the screening process at Beth Israel hospital in Boston and have an appointment next month with a surgeon.
I finally have hope. I had lost hope in ever losing weight because I have tried everything twice only to lose weight and gain it back plus some more for good measure.
I have started to let friends and family in on my plan. 99% of them have been so supportive which is such releif. However, there was one friend who was less than supportive. She said stuff like, "you should just be happy with who you are." Then she says "why don't you just find an exercise you like and stick with it instead."
If it were that easy, then none of us would be here. It made me kind of sad, it was like she was going out of her way to bring me down. And to top it off she says, "You know, sometimes the surgeries don't work."
Anyone else dealing with a negative response to their surguries?