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Lucy

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  1. Lucy

    Snacks or No Snacks?

    I don't have a fill yet, so I have to snack in the late afternoon or I am STARVING by dinnertime, which is bad because then I eat too fast. I agree with whoever mentioned that this is not about deprivation. Even if I snack, I am still eating WAY less than I was before banding.
  2. Lucy

    NSV's

    I bought a pair of jeans yesterday in size 16, down from a tight 18! Woo hooo!
  3. Thanks, BJean! It's a great sauce. I love to cook and I am very good at it (which is why I needed to have the LapBand!), so I promise you will like the sauce. The Laphroaig is the key ingredient -- it gives a nice peaty touch and brings all the flavors together.
  4. Thanks, Mindy. I have the super basic version, so I don't think anyone is going to mistake it for a bracelet from Tiffany & Co. Hopefully if I am ever in a situation that requires a medical professional to see the id, they will have the wherewithall to check out my right wrist.
  5. Lucy

    Intimacy

    BooBooKitty, like the others here, your post is so hard to read. I hope you can find a way to connect with your husband or find a way out. If my husband didn't speak to me for 3 days except to tell me to get his food, I would take the day off work and have the locks changed. The fact that he says lovely things to you while he thinks you are asleep shows that he has feelings for you, but he obviously doesn't know how to express them. I don't have answers, but I hope that you and he can find a way to get through this and communicate with one another.
  6. Congratulations to Pamela AND Stevee! Woo hoo!
  7. Argh. I have a tattoo on my left arm and I don't wear anything on it. I know the Medic ID is about safety and not accessorizing (and believe me, it certainly is the ugliest piece of "jewelry" I have), but I really don't want to wear it on my left arm.
  8. Lucy

    Intimacy

    I agree with you , Faith -- there is no "perfect" person out there for us. That seems to be something we all watched as kids in TV and movies (when will Disney finally come out with a movie where the princess and the prince argue all evening, she didn't feel like shaving her legs, and he's eating dinner on the sofa, watching football?). But there are people that we are more compatable with than others. At least when we start out with them. Part of the problem with life is that we are always changing. If you and your partner don't change together or in the same direction, then what you had 5, 10, however many years ago is not what you have today. Sex IS important in your relationship with your partner, because I think it isn't just about orgasm or fun, but it's also a form of communication. When my husband and I don't have sex for a while it feels like we are missing something because we are. If you and your partner have problems communicating on any level then there are going to be problems in the relationship. I'm not Dr Phil, I'm just typing the thoughts that come into my head. I'm glad that we can talk about these things here. Even if we don't have answers, it's good to discuss.
  9. Are you really supposed to wear them on the left arm? I hadn't heard that before. I've been wearing it on my right.
  10. Lucy

    Intimacy

    Thanks, Faith! I will talk to my gyn about it. After 2 years of trying 4 different bcs with no positive changes, she might be more willing to go the IUD route. If not, I'm sure I can find a gyn who will be willing to put it in. Apparently in South America, it's very common to put them in 13 and 14 year olds. Since there are so many doctors of South American descent here (Miami), I'm sure I can find someone who won't think twice about the IUD. My repertoire doesn't extend to fisting, so we shouldn't have any problems with dislodging over here. Of course, if my libido changes drastically with the IUD, who can say what will happen?
  11. Who are these people that have/make the time to come out and protest the pride parade? I mean, I obviously know WHO they are, but seriously, get a life! You don't see me standing outside a church on Sunday morning with a poster that says "I don't like your closed-mindedness".
  12. Lucy

    Intimacy

    I think in my case, the bc is definitely to blame -- I'm not on anti-depressants or any other medication and my lack of libido occurred when I started taking bc. I've been trying to convince my gyn to give me an IUD, but she says she won't do it because I've never had children and supposedly my body will reject it. Anyone know anything about this? FaithMD?
  13. Lucy

    June 2007 Bandsters

    I am definitely looking forward to a glass of wine, but I'm waiting until I can eat regular food again... There seem to be a lot of people who drink wine and they can handle it fine. I would say take it slow until you see how high your tolerance is :eek:
  14. Lucy

    How much do you tip your nail tech?

    Men and their damn football, baseball, basketball, hockey, bowling, fishing, soccer, rugby, tennis, australian rules football, golf, and porn. How are you supposed to do any work? :eek:
  15. Lucy

    How much do you tip your nail tech?

    I usually tip $5 if I just get a manicure, $10 for a mani/pedi.
  16. I'm still in the mushies, so this will probably change when I can eat real food again: Odwalla Super Protein chocolate Drink Stonyfield Farm Organic Frozen Yogurt A few ounces of hummus Miso Soup -- this is great if I'm craving something salty
  17. Lucy

    Where is everyone from?

    Miami Beach
  18. Lucy

    June 2007 Bandsters

    There's only 20 calories in a viactv chew and I take 2 a day. That's not much.
  19. Lucy

    Intimacy

    I really appreciate your advice, ladies. I've actually been on 4 different types of birth control in the last 2 years. The only one that really helped my libido return (a little) was ortho tri cyclen lo, but it also turned me into a raving mad PMS monster! Hopefully, as the weight comes off, my libido starts to return again. I used to be obsessed with sex and now I feel completely uninterested in it. I love my husband to death and I am completely attracted to him, but there just isn't any fire inside me anymore. It makes me really sad.
  20. Lucy

    June 2007 Bandsters

    I'm taking a childrens' chewable gummy bear vitamin. It's not chalky at all. I think the brand is called Rhino. I take double the amount that kids are supposed to take. I also take the Viactiv chews for calcium. They aren't delicious, but they aren't bad. Don't get the generic ones, though -- I tried the Target brand ones and they were awful.
  21. Lucy

    Anyone using a pedometer/cal counter?

    I use a Nike heart rate monitor. They are supposed to be really accurate. It tracks my heart rate during exercise and provides data about how many calories I burned. It was about $100. the Bodybugg sounds amazing, but you are supposed to wear it 24/7 which is not something I'm interesting in doing.
  22. Lucy

    Intimacy

    I was shy the first time I had it done, but you soon realize that they wax bikini lines for a living and you're just another customer. They've seen more snatch than Wilt Chamberlain! I would actually like to continue talking about intimacy because I think this is a good thread. All of us have intimacy issues and this is a good place to talk about them. My husband is wonderful -- it's me that has the problems. I've always been insecure about my weight with him, even though he says he thinks I'm beautiful. Ever since I've been on birth control, my libido has disappeared completely and I've been incredibly insecure about how I look around him. I don't want to stop taking bc since I don't want to get pregnant, but I'm starting to wonder if my birth control is working SO well that it's making me not even want to have sex with my husband! Any advice?
  23. Lucy

    June 2007 Bandsters

    insub, it's possible that we were on the same thread, but you aren't the one who gave me a hard time How do you like the pea and rice proteins?
  24. Lucy

    Intimacy

    The hair should be at least 1/4" long and not too much longer. You should go every 4-5 weeks. After a while, the hair will get thinner and it doesn't hurt as much. And I really should mention that the pain is not that bad. If your waxer is experienced, they will be very quick and the pain will be minimal and fleeting.
  25. Lucy

    Intimacy

    I have to chime in here -- I SWEAR by the brazillian bikini wax (on me, not on my husband). It is the best thing in the world. Yes, it hurts for a few moments when they are doing it, but it is totally worth it to be all clean down there (I do have them leave a little landing strip, though, the totally bare thing is a little weird). My waxer is great, very gentle. And if you are embarrassed, don't worry, they've seen it all before. Relating to the intimacy topic, my husband loves when I get waxed. I usually don't tell him, I just get it done and surprise him. But if you and your mate are having real intimacy issues, I don't know if a little hair removal is going to solve your issues. But it's certainly worth a try!

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