weightingtolose

Good luck. The greatest thing you will do in your life is raise your own daughter without the damaging remarks your own mother continues to make. I know this is very harsh, and many may disagree, but do you really need someone in your life who continues to be so hurtful? At the very least, the relationship needs some new rules even if you have to go to therapy or involve other family members to help you! Show your daughter you can stand up for yourself!

I dont know why I am telling you what to do (usually I wouldnt) but I see myself and my own Mom issues in you. I think there's no other person on the planet who can hurt us as much as our mothers!I dont mean to psychoanalyze you but I suspect your difficulty with your weight goes back to dear old Mom...but maybe all of ours does! Good luck, protect yourself! Cali