Shrinking_Lola

Yeah I get that it's a free sight, thanks for your cheery comment!! Still an update would be nice. I don't get on here very often except when I'm updating progress photo's and asking questions, and I appreciate that it's free but there should still be some consideration for the people who make this site as popular as it is. I'm glad your being patient, but it's okay also to be annoyed. Updating is common decency.

Anyone else annoyed that it's 4 days passed and we STILL can't upload or view our own galleries!?!

I'm exactly like you, I only told my husband and my best friends. I had mentioned a friend who had it done a year prior to my actual surgery and my family flipped out and said they hope I never had it done because I could achieve anything thru diet and exercise. The most unsupportive group of people ever, and they don't need to know my business, so I have never told them.

It all depends on the person's shape really... I do agree with you tho, you should be a smaller person to wear skinny jeans, but I've seen some beautiful pear shaped women wear them with a pair of nice knee high boots and they looked killer!! So??

Im with Twinsmama!! I love Panties the way women love shoes!! Fredrick's has ALWAYS been my favorite place to buy them, even when I was bigger!!! They are awesome for all sorts of fun and sexy outfits, corsets and panties!!

Nessa you are beautiful!!! Im sure all of that will change as you continue to gain more confidence :-)

I was back to having sex the day I got home from surgery :-) no problems here!!

If your having such a hard time, stop thinking about the time as a whole. Don't think about all day, focus on making good choices for the next 2 hours, or hour or even 30 mins if you have to, set small goals, and don't let the length of time overwhelm you.

I went thru Ready4AChange and they informed I didn't pass the tests, or the Dr denied my surgery, they would also hand the money order back over to me.

When your sleeved you'll find that you cannot use food to medicate yourself anymore, and once the weight starts to come off and he can't call you names anymore, he'll find another topic to use against you. He needs counseling, and Lord willing he could be saved. Don't let him sabotage you!!! Don't set the example for you children that his behavior is okay, would you want your son's and daughters acting like him or putting up with a man treating them that way?? It's good that your aware of your situation, because knowledge is power!!! MANY women leave abusive men, it can be done, and it happens all the time. Life hasn't promised us easy street, so if he won't make an effort to get help, your heart will tell you what you need to do.