TinyMamiOf3kids

Me!!! I need a total body make over. Apron belly bat wings saggy boobs butt thigh. Had it all plan out for June 2014 but due to marriage issues. Moving out is top priority. Surgery is left for maybe 2015/2016 before I'm 40 hopefully

Does he really love me? I think to my self. I thought I was super woman & I do it all but I guess maybe I been missing something. I'm tired of this man!!! He decided after he made no plans to go fishing today when we were suppose to go to visit my sister for her 30th birthday as a surprise. Now I'm going alone as if I was a single mother to 3 kids. Well afterwards I will take the kids to city island. Why pay the toll twice?

Hello it's not impossible to get back on track. You have to log on your food. Basically pretend you just had surgery & start with liquid & soft food.

I was past 2 months when I started eating. I was never hungry. I had to force my self to eat. Now at 15 months of course I don't have this issue.

Don't be hard on your self. You are doing wonderful. You may lose slower but that's great cuz if you lose fast you will be saggy like me

Good luck & I guess it's up to the individual to make which ever surgery work for them but for long lasting results & of course it's more work for us it's going with the RNY.

They say with RNY. You lose 90 percent of your weight. If I'm going to have Wls I rather do the full surgery that I will experience it all. I'm glad I had this surgery I haven't had any complication & I'm 15 months today.

Congrats

Before we throw stones at each other remember we are all human here,and no one is perfect. I had WLS in May 30, 2012 and I reach under goal weight. Before I had WLS I had quit smoking way before. Actually I quit smoking when my son was about 1 1/2 years old when I found out he has autism. My son is now 3 years old. So I had quit for a long time now. I been doing so great excellent awesome,but my 15 years wedding anniversary came up yesterday,and for some stupid reason there was 3 skinny cigars left from my hubby pack mind you he isn't a smoker,but occasionally he smokes cigars. Every 1-3-6 months. I decided hey it's my anniversary let me have a smoke! Oh no knowing about the risk,ulcers,and everything wrong that can happen. I smoke the cigar,and enjoy every bit. Today I once again took 1 cigar,and smoke half of it,and threw it away,and starting thinking OMG!!! what the hell I'm doing??? Well I don't want to continue smoking knowing I may die especially after having WLS,but I was thinking if I buy the E-Cig with no nicotine will it be safe for my body just to get this stupid I want to smoke again out of my head. Trust me I don't wanna die,and I quit for my son. Thanks and plz be nice to me. I know I had WLS for the best,and I sure don't want to cause harm or die cause I'm stupid.

I'm slim all over lost my butt & boobs

2 years

I didn't start out the day of surgery 197 I'm 5foot. I'm 34 years old. Since I wasn't omg the biggest person having Wls I figure it wouldn't affect me but guess what? I do need a lot of area fix. I'm not a fan of exercise & it won't bounce my body back so I'm not killing my self with exercise. I will go back to working out simply cuz it's something to do but after surgery is when I will exercise to keep in shape.

When ppl regain unless its just the slip up after lap band it's simply cuz they got too comfortable & went back to stuffing your face. This surgery doesn't make you skinny. You make your self slim by what you put in your mouth. If the brother saw him self gaining he could had put a stop to it seek help & get back on track but he decided he loves food & just doesn't care. Don't compare your self to others. We either fix what we don't like about our body by having plastic surgery. there is no other way not killing your self with exercise will lift your tummy or just learn to live with it.

Lmbo that's right it will not continue when she is gone.

Welcome to the group & so glad you are about to join us soon on the losers bench

Family or not ppl should mind there own business in the decision we make in life. I see my self in the mirror I know I'm slim but does it change the inside of me nope. I hate when hubby"can't weight to get rid of that extra 140lbs I believe" says I was cuddling with my son on the bed & since we don't have photos like that except when he was new born cuddling or holding my son. I asked my daughter to take a photo. She does but seriously all joke aside. I look so fat in the photo. I saw hubby he says you look very healthy in other words I look sick now.

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I have a good feeling about the outcome of your health. After this is over & if you need 3rd surgery you will be successful. Sometimes we hit a rocky road & we feel the why did I do this but look at it this way. We take risk & chances in life everyday. I had 3 c sections I heal & survive. My friend had 1 c section & she die on the operating table. I had Wls 14 months ago. I'm a complete success. My friend had Wls 1 day before me she is also a success. Only cuz you had or are having a bumpy road doesn't mean you won't bea success. When you reach goal which you will you won't ever want a white pizza again cuz you will think of how long it took you to be successful then you will remember my words. Nothing comes easy in life. I have a great success but a horrible marriage. Have a great day I'm sending you a big hug & think positive.

I can't have spicy food. Like adding hot sauce and such. It feels like my stomach is on fire & it leads me to vomiting. I'm 14 months post up. Now permanently I can no longer eat rice, pork,spicy food,high sugar. I would have the worst poop ever the nasty kind & vomiting. It's not over I figure after 6 months I can be normal. Oh lately no bacon bread or eggs. Liquid eggs ok turkey bacon is not attractive to me lmbo

I didn't feel any weird sensation but I felt full so quickly.

As you may or may not know my son has autism. Lately I been losing my patience but I would never hurt my son. When I feel I might hurt him or its just to much I put him in the crib. He crys & crys but gets over it & stays quite. He has learn how to climb to the point that he gets on the Window & starts banging hard on the window & one day someone will call & once again gonna deal with ACS. He has broken the window blinds.

so I didn't want to come back here posting issues & problems. They say talking to people,and writing down how you feel helps a lot,and other woman might be in my shoes or went threw what I'm going threw right now so here it goes... We went to a hotel in New jersey to take the kids to six flags. On our return back home New York we decided"hubby idea mind you" to get pizza. We order a pie it's much cheaper then individual slices,and a liter pepsi once again cheaper then individual soda or drinks. We eat,and finish,and we are now home. All the sudden I hear hubby saying that I like the pizza guy,and he confirm it today.He stated the way I was talking to him,walking. I said I order the food,and that was all. He went on & on to proceed that I like the pizza guy. Then he claim I like him ever since we moved here(that's 13 years go)... I have no interest in this guy. Today I had a appointment with the bariatric doctor. I was late to my appointment,but I went. I also decided it was time to get a fillin since I didn't make plans with my kids,and I was near by plus I got free parking. I was done went home... time passes.... hubby was getting on my nervous,and he was claiming that I don't feed my kids,and telling me stupid things such as if my kids die what money will I be getting? Why would I want my kids to die,and I'm getting money for them cuz they are special need,and even if I wasn't getting money for them I love them just the same,and it doesn't matter to me if I'm getting money or not. Well we got to arguing,and I was yelling to shut the fuck up. He then suddenly said yeah you sure was fucking this morning,and it sure wasn't with me. I told him you are going to have to find a room to rent,cuz I'm getting really tired of you. He then started saying oh you will have to be the one to move. See.... my ass is moving,but I have to wait till NYCHA contacts me,and it won't be till next year. Plus hubby owes me $7,000 which I'm not leaving till he gives me back my money. Plus I'm not stupid.How you gonna bitch about me getting money for my own kids,but have the nerve to borrow money from me. How the hell you think I manage to save money? So hubby pays all the bills,but it's ok he can continue to do so while I wait for NYCHA to get back to me. Oh well tomorrow which is today it's past 3am I go to a building I know that the handyman lets me collect the bottles. So I'm going to be going there about 8:30am this is a Saturday thing Getting money together isn't easy. School is going to start soon,and kids need sneakers,and then I'm so called pocketing there money. Oh please!!! My kids are very healthy this man is out of his damn mind. stupid man!!!