TinyMamiOf3kids

Yeah where he been?

I hate Gatorade. I feel it's just too sweet for me.

Welcome to the group. We are your support team here. If you try everything already this has to work for you. It worked for me after so many diets including starving my self.

Went to see my dietician like I do every month. He feels I'm fine the way I'm but I want to be 110. He says don't worry about counting calories. Eat every 3 hours. Snack all day. I eat every 4 hours & don't snack. Drink lots of Water & crystal light.

I went back to take a good look at your tummy. My tummy looks the same as yours except I have lots of stretch marks on my stomach.

I love you girl!! Lmbo it's not so much that my tummy is big it's not its wrinkle & a little folded since having 3 c sections. I'm a size 4. I'm stall at this point. Need 2lbs to 125 then 15 to 110

Congrats on your date

I'm at stall once again. Like 3 weeks oh well... I gotta kick my own ass.

Are you ready or will you put surgery on hold?

You look great!

Lmbo your too funny.

Thanks for posting. Not everyone has bad experience infact a lot of us have feat experience after WLS which is wonderful that's how it should always be.

I increase everywhere. Energy level I last longer. I just simply love it!

You don't feel sick forever.

Your doing it for you 1st then to be a healthier person & have energy for your kids. Idk but I feel when ppl say your doing it for "someone else" it's the wrong reason. Your not going under the knife to please your kids. Your going under for you. Our kids are borrow only until they grow up & leave the house. How long will they be small? Ages new born till 10 then they develop a mind of there own & don't wanna play with mommy. They become teenagers like my 15 year old & they have there own mind set. My kiddos 3 & 4 years old I have energy for them now since 84lbs is gone but I didn't go under the knife for them. I did it only for me. I want to look & feel good. I did something for my son I stop smoking that I did for him since finding out he is autism. I didn't want to dye of cancer & leave him with out a mom.

It's very normal. Even now at 6 months post up I can't eat Chinese food at all. It makes me vomit. I love Chinese but my pouch doesn't plus you know there food is greasy. They have a diet menu but who the heck wanna eat that lmbo. I rather cook my steam fish & can veggies then feel like I'm dying cuz I had Chinese.

I'm gonna answer you:) I was 33 when I had gastric bypass heightest weight 211lbs I had nothing wrong with me. Okay a little asthma but it was cause by being heavy. I haven't used my pump in over 2 years. I did a life change before surgery but wasn't losing weight but kept me off asthma pump. My knee was being affected by all this weight I was carrying. Now I can't tell you after WLS you will be jumping on one foot or you will never have issues or complications why? Things have its own way of happening & god forbid something happens. In life things happen we can't avoid but this is only a small 1% chance of a person being the one who has issues after WLS. My personal experience I had my share of small issues. One month non stop vomiting. When I was three months my stomach closed so tight I had to have a endoscopy to open it up just a little cuz it was causing me to vomit non stop for 1week. Now I'm 6 months post up down 85lbs no issues no complications. No dumping. I can eat almost anything in small portions. I feel great my only issue now is that my tummy is wrinkly which I will get plastic surgery in 2014. I want other things but lets see. WLS is a personal issue and it should be taking with open eyes. Some ppl maybe extremely lucky genetics or age not to ever sag. Each case is different so if your thinking maybe your too young to have WLS you can always get a dietician & lose the weight slowly but with out rush side effects or anything. You do what makes you feel comfortable. No one is going to judge you here. There is one other member who didn't get WLS either. This is not for everyone. You have to be willing to change. It's only a tool to help you lose weight the rest is up to the individual. Good luck & all the best in the decision you make one way or the other.

Welcome to the group! Yes we are your support system here.

Glad things are so far so good:)

My husband more then once tells me oh "you think your all that cuz your slim now"... Also you have your kids as money. "They are special need & get SSI"... I have complete control of there money I'm there mom,but no one is hungry thirsty with out clothes. He told me last night oh *****(his 33 year old son) mom is fat I rather have a fat woman that cooks then a skinny woman that don't. I didn't cook last last simply cuz I had left over chicken noodle soup. I feel he is happy with the new me but then says things to make me feel bad.

Yes it is verbal abuse. I guess he needs to learn to communicate with me more instead of expecting what idk he wants. We are in family therapy but should go back to marriage counseling when we are done in February. Then I should go for solo therapy I been feeling sad might be depress I was so freaken happy. I'm going nuts.

I believe this is true. He keeps saying don't get too skinny. What's too skinny? I'm sure my body will come to the end.