TinyMamiOf3kids

Welcome to the group!

Well I dump with skinny cow but had it once. Idk if I was to eat it again if I would dump. I try breyers sugar free ice cream & I did really well.

I think 14/13 by May would be great. Keep us posted:)

I don't like Greek yogurt but its healthy.

One step at a time. We didn't gain weight over night so we won't lose it over night. I had about 3/4 stalls. Patience my dear. You will lose the weight & feel fabulous.

In 3 days I turn 8 months post up.

Yeah me too. If I really listen to my body I would be 80pounds. I would live off crystal light & crackers. I force my self to eat. Do you ever not feel hungry but have to eat lets say Breakfast after you are it since you wasn't hungry you vomit it up?

It happen to me today. I wasn't in hours of pain but my stomach was killing me. I had a few fried fries & clam strips. I thought I was gonna die. It came out opposite of vomiting.

Some more bitching... Didn't even eat the delicious meal I prepare. My son as autism & even so often when he drinks liquor/beer he would say hurtful things such as you have a crazy son. He said tonight your crazy cant be my son. I'm not crazy must have been a crazy man that's your father out there. I guess your not smart enough have the brain to learn to cook anyhow. Your mother is getting a check for you every month. I started screaming & said shit up your being stupid. I went to the living room. He kept on talking & talking I was watching TV so I wasn't listening. I'm being patience but I think I'm better off by my self. Well next year 2014 I get plastic surgery so lets see how the bill situation is going so maybe by the time my son turns 5 I should be out of here. He can keep the car he bought me its not paid off & it's not in my name. We have less bills now & a few of them will be paid off in a few months. Leaving us with about 3/4 large bills in the thousands. After my plastic surgery I will be able to pay off my own bills only what's in my name which is like 2. I don't owe such a large amount that I can't pay. In a few months I can pay those off. I guess I have to then look for a place to live & see if I can get subsidy for abuse spouse. I will talk to other single ladies here & in the welfare office to see my options when the time comes.

Thanks I'm trying really hard:) you can do this.

Nope! Everything from my butt to my arm is sagging I'm 34.

Yes I'm a size 2. I was 211 now 118(last time I check) I'm 5 foot tall I'm going to be 8 months post up. I been size 2 since I turn 6 months post up. I'm very careful with what I eat. I barely exercise now. I have no time. I have so much going on in my life from the moment I wake up. Have you ever seen "All In The Family" I feel that's my life except I have 3 kids & I do answer back to my husband. Racist hubby & all that's my hubby right there.

I guess no days can be perfect. Feeling sad & unhappy:( well I'm home like always he comes in complaining my son is in the crib by him self. He is lock up like an animal. It's almost 12am & he took a late nap & of course he will be up late. Comes to the kitchen asking where is my pilon. I said on top of the fridge. He said you haven't used that for weeks. I said I use garlic every time I cook. Asking how much garlic I put in the rice. Smelling the pilon. I'm like are you ok? You been drinking? I been drinking since earlier. I said I don't appreciate you coming home like that acting stupid. He checks the food starts saying this is too good for me. Idk what he meant by that but I ask him if he was going to eat. He said yes but starts saying I should teach my son to cook. I said he's 3 years old. He needs to learn he is gonna be a cabron(when the wife cheats on a man) so you better teach him. He will be cheated on anyway so he might as well learn to cook. He walks out to put the bottles in the recycle. I'm just like thinking. I need a freaken medal I cook 7 days a week 3 meals per day. I do take a short cut once in a while with frozen fries. I make everything fresh. Boil Beans I don't buy meat already season. I season it. I make my own dressing. I make a lot of things from scratch. I don't bake sweets or make fresh bread. Shit! I spend a lot of time in the kitchen now imagine if I had to make every single thing from scratch. I don't wash by hands except panties if needed to. I don't own a swifter I have an actual mop & bucket. I do Iron when needed. If he doesn't appreciate this 34 year old that cooks 3 meals per day 7 days a week. Takes care of 3 kids. Gets up Monday~Friday 6am never ask for help. Go shopping alone do everything by my self. I don't know what else I should do for the family? I don't know if there is something I'm missing? I don't know why he is drinking so much? I don't know why I'm the blame for everything? I don't have a break. I take a break for my self by getting my nails done. Sometimes my hair. My fun times being on line chatting with WLS ppl. Games drinking Starbucks cafe. Shopping for food or clothes. That's it. I don't complain. I'm used to being alone & doing things alone.

I wanna know what happen after he saw you?

I had flounder fillet. That's all.

I love shopping. Who wouldn't? I'm a size 2 in jeans. I just order Victoria secret panties in small. I hope that's my size cuz my XL panties keeps falling down. I haven't had time to know my size so I figure small but if I don't fit in it right now I will by the summer.

Naughty girl:)

I honestly have bad experience with outside food. I can say I didn't have a problem with taco bell the small nachos with meat. I'm afraid of eating it again simply cuz one day everything the next it won't agree with me. I can't eat Chinese food anymore. Sometimes a slice of pizza I can deal with other times I can't. I have to really want it. Also your new with your pouch. I'm almost 8 months. Boy have I learn my lesson. Good luck and don't have fried food.

I'm glad you are being strong. I'm proud of you continue with this attitude.

You are doing great. I'm great with meals & lousy with liquids.

So the surgeon must have done something to my brain I wasn't hungry for 6 months. I'm 7 months almost 8 months I have days I'm hungry & days I forget to eat & days I eat very light and I'm fine. I do eat daily 3 meals and snacks. Healthy choices no chips & such:) feeling hungry is normal. I'm the one not normal.

I will join in this conversation. I don't feel depress but I do have emotional problems with the way my body looks after losing almost 90lbs? I'm not sure how much I lost now. I know I'm healthier but now I need plastic surgery. That makes me feel yuck about my body. My boobs are saggy my butt saggy my legs saggy I have bat wings my tummy saggy & wrinkly. I feel horrible what happen to my body? I'm just waiting for this year to be over cuz in 2014 I'm getting fix. I haven't lost friends cuz I'm not that kind of person to hang out & go out for drinks & such. I can eat out by my self fat or slim. Never bother me. So can't relate to friends issues. Spouse? I'm still married & we finally have understanding in leave me the F alone. As long as I do my mommy duties he leaves me alone. Oh yeah my sex drive went down hill. I have body imagine issue I don't want to be nude. I was enjoying it very much & now it's like I want to sleep.

Welcome to the group. Good luck & all the best. You will love the new you:) it's a life change & it's such a good feeling not to be obese & fat.

I was on shake for 28 days straight twice a day. Idk how I didn't go crazy but I said I won't fail& I will pull threw. 2 shakes 1 meal each & everyday for 28 days then liquid day 29 then starving day 30 can't drink or eat the day of surgery.

Good luck & all the best plus speedy recovery