TinyMamiOf3kids

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Thanks I'm giving it all I have. I can't do more or less then what I'm doing now.

Of course I wouldn't want her thinking abuse of any kind women or men to woman is normal. She knows it. She won't follow in my foot steps.

My daughter is already 16 years old. She have seen it all,and it can't get any worst then what it is. If I been with hubby for 17 years,and for the past 5/6 years she have witness the abuse another 2 years won't make a difference. I sure hope I don't sound harsh with my reply,but I have to be honest. Money is the only thing that will get you somewhere in live. If I have no money we can't do anything in this world. Depending on the government to lend me a hand I will always be broke. Counting on a lawyer to get my SSD to be approve if I was really in need as I have no money. We would all be dead counting on a disability check. If I wasn't collecting bottles in the streets my 16 year old wouldn't have allowance for the week. My car needs gas to run. I'm sorry but right now I'm in this alone. Hubby money goes all on bills,and I don't work to help pay for some of the bills. When the time comes for me to move out whatever isn't paid off. I will pay it off. That's why I'm saving money for us. This money isn't for my self. It started out that way surgery for me,but now it's saving to have a moving company take my furniture out,and either move it to my future apartment or to a storage place until I get my own place which hopefully isn't in a housing project.

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Breath girl... Think positive,but I would say nope simply cuz everyone made plans to help you out. Not many of us including my self have others to help them out after any surgery.

Hello... I'm basically living in hell. I should be out of here 2015. The verbal abuse is out of hand. It's almost physical some grabbing has happen. My teenage is graduating come June 2015. My baby girl graduate also kindergarten. My son graduate pre school. So as soon has I hear I can move or there is a possibility of a place. Not thinking twice I'm leaving. I edit due to the fact that my daughter is in 11th grade not 12th grade lolz... I'm crazy

I want to win the lottery... I want to win the lottery... Money will buy happiness... I can live where I want don't have to count on the government.

I admit.... I have been the lazy housewife,but on Thursday I clean up my daughter's room,and of course she is old enough to clean it up her self,but I'm not up her case about it since she helps me out a lot with the little ones. On Friday I did some more cleaning. Yesterday I clean my entire bedroom. I had my daughter help me clean out the livingroom. Now it looks like a home not a zoo. I shower last night & spray perfume,and he told me it smell like man perfume. Instead of saying the house smells good. The kids are clean. dinner was wonderful. UGH!!!!

Your not alone.

I sure love it. Looking sexy & beautiful

Good luck & speedy recovery.

I called the HUD it's some kind of housing. No one return my call. I its going to be a week. i'm making a move doing my part but no one is reaching out to me. I know I'm on a waiting list with NYCHA for June 2014 basically for an interview but what I need is section8 not public housing. My kids are afraid of the housing project yes I took them by a few of them. We also been out at night time that's worst I heard the mami let's go home. So I know for sure a housing project won't be good for my kids. We need to live in a regular building good area where they are not afraid. Looks like I have to stay in the same area but try to get section8 to view my case even if it takes longer to move out. I need to leave but not moving to be worst off. I want to leave proud with my head up & not have regrets of what did I do. My question to you would be I know section8 is closed but in situation like mine domestic violence child abuse child ect... They have exceptions. Where do I go? How do I apply? Who do I talk to? I'm in NYC queens area.

So far things are marching nicely... I got some chores done. I'm wondering how the hell I got some must dust on the wall & ceiling but I wipe it all down. I'm thinking of removing the picture frame I have by the kitchen,but is not in the kitchen. It keeps getting sticky with the cooking I do. Will replace with kitchen related frame or something lmbo Kindergarten was good for my 5 year old. 11th grade was not great 1st day for my 16 year old. She has 3 classes with a guy she doesn't like. Pre-k once again yeah my son gets pre-k 3 times in his life time. He went to pre-k age 1 1/2 years of age. Age 3 pre-k and he will be 4 in December so he continues pre-k until August of 2014 then he goes to another special education school for kindergarten. His 1st day according to his new teacher John he didn't eat his lunch. It's ok I responded. He doesn't eat with guys. I have always fed him or my 16 year old. Hubby attempted and he refuse & gives nasty looks lmbo he gets used to only one person feeding him in school & he is stuck with that person so to Mr. John a female teacher will have to feed him lmbo also he isn't diaper change by a guy.

Did you walk down the church or up to the priest thinking in a few years I'm getting a divorce? Did you buy your dream furniture hang up picture frames? Watch your kids grow? Look at your wedding band? Thinking I need to get out!!! I never in a million years felt or thought of leaving the man I gave 17 years of my life to. Gave him 3 kids. We decorated the house together. Put up picture frames all over. Went to different places. Spend hours together. Spoil me rotten. Put me threw school. Paid for my college. Watch me grow from a teenager to my thirties. I go over & over in my head why can't I make this marriage work????? The 3 kids are being verbally abuse. That's a good enough reason to leave a marriage. Have I talk to him? Of course did I accomplished anything? Nope. It's becoming a little less maybe cuz he isn't home so they don't hear it if they are sleeping. I'm being verbally abuse. Suddenly he doesn't like how I cook. He thinks I'm a slut sleeping around cuz I'm slim now. Why it's so complicated to keep a marriage together? This time I'm putting my kids 1st and thinking what's best for them & how long till xxx is paid how about xxx is paid. Can I buy a prom dress? Will I have money left over? I don't know what is like to pay rent light gas cell phone cable my own bills. Why? Hubby always paid them. If I ever mention I paid something it was with hubby money but checks are in my name. I do pay for diapers(not anymore getting it free) clothes non food items & sneakers my own nails & hair if needed. When it comes to utilities hubby pays for them so I have a lot to learn about life. How to pay my own damn bills?

Brain storm away. I'm married NYC life style & cost of living that I can't see my self else where.

I put up this subject cuz I feel like we beat our self up all the time but there has to be something good that happen during the time we were overweight. Let me start off... 1. I had my last 2 kids being fat 2. I was fat when I got married 3. I enjoy my food 4. Nothing was hanging on my body 5. My hair was super long & thick 6. Didn't have dry skin. 7. Big boobs 8. Big butt

I will see if he is willing. Thanks

Since we been together 17 years I owe it to him to let him know since he ask about my feelings towards the marriage. In conclusion he so called says he will change. I said that's what's always said but it doesn't happen. Verbally abusing my kids & me it's very bad. I don't want to be with you cuz I want to do what I want. I see no future here & I'm getting older & I need to leave. He said I can always leave & rent a room somewhere. I said let's see what happen. I'm serious if there is no change I'm already set on leaving & what you say won't matter anymore. He continue to say he will change & I continue to say I'm planning on leaving depending on you. He knows this is serious cuz of everything that was said in the conversation. He even said he will let me do whatever I want if I want to go out with friends to the strip clubs. What??? A jealous insecure man wants to keep me here cuz he is 21 years older or he thinks ok let her do whatever she will stay with me or what. I'm lost for words.

Whenever you feel discomfort call your surgeon its always better to be safe then sorry.

Congrats & there are a few pre op preggo and some already had the baby.