TinyMamiOf3kids

This bought tears to my eyes. I want to create happy memories for my kids especially the little ones. My teenager hates her father. Can you blame her? No one enjoys watching your mother being put down.

Thanks and I love your quote "it might be hard but i'm worth it" I'm going to start saying that

Once again I'm putting my kids 1st I can't pay all my bills at once now,but I will continue to save money,and will do surgery in the future. I have to cut down on my fancy life style LMBO... starbuck cafe drinker limit to weekly or once a month. I know how to budget so that won't be a problem. My only issue is I must do my nails been over 10 years that's a habit of mine,but it's a cheap habit compare to spending daily $5 on cafe. Nails it's $15 x2=$30 a month so I can stretch the nails to the very end when it's in bad shape,and not do it every 2 weeks. I was counting the years till my 20 year marriage anniversary to get married by church. Now everything is ruined... I would love to still wait the 20 years,and say Happy 60th birthday your gift from me is a beautiful separation. I'm leaving back up the moving truck,and take my stuff,and have a police there cause he is the type to break things just so I don't take it with me. All I want is the china closet,and curio. The kids x box and there clothes. I would love the stove,but I can buy my own I can buy everything else.

Now I'm asking a billion questions. This is simply a nail polish? This is your own natural nails? You do the design & polish your self? If all these answers are yes yes yes.. It's not the product for me. I have tips & acrylic on top. I like being pamper & serve since I serve others. All I ever do is grocery shop & drink cafe & nails & eye brow. If I stop my life I believe will be over. Maybe I can live with bushy eye brows. With out surgery but no more cafe or my nails oh boy!!! Lmbo I can't do it. I would go crazy.

I love them before I ask a million question gonna read & comment again lmbo

Your right about that. I have no words or excuses but I do want what's best for my kids. In order to do that I do need money,and I won't die or anything if I don't get plastic surgery at this moment or even next year. I know I will be a much happier person not being in this home.

Hubby told me today he has no idea why he is with me. He also said I do nothing for him. He said he pays all the bills & I don't take care of him. I cook 7 days a week. He comes home late a good percentage of the time he is drinking with his brother & he would say you don't cook like before or I don't want to eat that. He takes out a cup Soup or makes Lipton soup. Since he started doing that. I decided oh why I'm going to waste time making him Breakfast. I buy cold cuts & Italian bread & they fix there own sandwich. I'm not dealing with bacon eggs sausage toast hot cafe. Why? I'm not being appreciated. He then complains I don't take care of him. No food no sex no nada!!! Since I boil lots of Beans then freeze it makes my life easier he decided to call my beans can beans when it's not from can then says why not Make can beans if your gonna freeze beans. He hates can beans and my son hates it also. I stop more cuz of my son. He sat at the dinner table the other night. I had made frozen fries steak and salad. He had this awful look on his face. What is this? Frozen fries why didn't you just make a steak sandwich. I said cuz I didn't. I had extra steak left over. I made a steak sandwich yesterday. It was then oh you made a sandwich. The day he complain about the food. I said you don't like can beans I stop making them. You bitch about my cooking. What else. I was so PESSED I went off and said well did your ex make fresh Pasta she cut them up had the pasta machine. Made fresh bread didn't buy it made. Fuck you better then me. Was she was fing perfect that's why maybe her ass is like a thousand pound and she makes everything fresh and never bought a box if macaroni. He stood quiet then try to come with a stupid comeback what about your ex did he work something like that. I said we are talking about food I never live with anyone before. I supported my self & went to school. He never answer anything cuz unless your from the 1800's or 1900's there is no way a woman like my self have time for all this cooking. It's bad enough I actually cook & it's from fresh cuz I take my time & I don't have a babysitter. I watch my own damn kids. I don't have a maid housekeeper or cook cuz I do all that. Was adding what are my bills. I owe less then 6000 in total. After next year I can pay my own bills & work on applying for my citizen ship. After that's done nada is keeping me here. I will then see about looking for a place for my self & my kids. If we can't get alone then being apart is best for us. I want to be in peace. I'm tired of being treated less then a partner. Being put down. Not being appreciated. I don't need him. I don't need his money. I don't need his sex. I don't need his company. I don't need his help. I don't need someone that doesn't appreciate me and accuses me if being with the world. I wanted my marriage to last and be forever. I have 3 kids. I'm 34. I'm standing my ground and maybe will make breakfast only cuz his adult son is paying so one should suffer cuz of the dad and eat cold food. I will keep my pretty lips closed and keep peace since I still need surgery this year & next year & whatever money he is paying for the bills makes it easier on me to finish them off when that time comes. Hopefully my SSD will be approve soon so I can save more money. I'm gonna have to start collecting cans & bottles my self cuz my daughter needs allowance.

Looks like from 2013-2017 divorce will increase. I want to stay married forever on papers. In reality I want to be separated forever. I'm just tired of all the bull shit.

Excellent lost 15 pounds before WLS

1200 calories or less

Welcome to the group. I'm also 34. Congrats on decision to have WLS.

I eat popcorn all the time in a small amount

Pj and cell phone they give you the rest

Either avoid it or keep it 20g and under

That's right! That's my mom right there. I need to lose 5lbs and she does. Now I'm the 2nd smallest in the family besides my youngest sister. She's 103 lbs

I can fit with my son or daughter in the chair and I'm not squeezing them & there is room left. Before I took over the entire seat. On the sofa we can also both fit in one cushion not me taking over the entire half the sofa.

You look good check out those slim legs.

Vitamins are important cuz we change the way we eat & the amount out body gets so it makes the body jump up & down. If you eat less your tired if you over eat you vomit. Boy do I have my moments. It's all part of healing & getting adjusted to your new life change.

I had it when I was in surgery must have done it during surgery. It hurt when they pull it out. But it was over once it was pull out.

He was born ass hole will die being one... He ha always accuse me before weigh lost

Sure

If anyone know someone that knows how I can apply for section 8 (not housing project). Send me a private message thanks