TinyMamiOf3kids

Do you happen to be in New York? We can be neighbors lolz I honestly think there is no other men in this world for me. I love men don't get me wrong,but after all the verbal abuse I want to be alone. I'm going to have one of the hottest body and no one to share it with except B.O.B. lmbo I gotta do some cleaning up. I have so many memories & so much stuff "did someone say donation"? I will have to donate a lot of crap. Well laundry time got like oh boy 6 bags of clothes ugh double ugh....

Good luck everyone... I guess it must have been a combination of age & being wiser now that made me make the big decision on having WLS. That gave me the extra push I wasn't or didn't have the will power I do today if I didn't have WLS. Maybe it would had been possible with out WLS but I was about to have a knee replacement if I didn't lose this weight fast. I save my knee by having WLS & I'm proud to still have a good working knee lmbo

Your funny lmbo it was the best sex if your life I bet. Bet the neighbor heard you

I think less then a week

I have smaller hands. Before After

Since I'm now officially slim/tiny woman. I want to reach out to those that are struggling with thinking about having WLS,and if you don't want to have WLS I'm still here for you. It's very easy to judge a book by it's cover with out knowing or walking in the other person's shoes. WLS isn't for everyone,and let's face it we are human. If we are here it's cause we have a weight issue/problem,and we want to live a long healthy life for our self spouse family,and of course kids,and who know our pets need some love from us. There was one point in my life I was doing so great I got selfish,and neglected the group,but it wasn't with the wrong intentions I felt I didn't fit in anymore,but guess what? I fit in why? I'm here to inspire you,and make you believe,and know I'm a real person not a computer. I'm human. I have emotions. I have a family. I have goals. I have a life. I have kids. I'm your friend. I'm your support system. I'm here for you in good times,and bad times. I send out a bunch of messages this morning for members I haven't seen post in over a year. Did they reach goal? Did they regain? Did they move? Who knows,but we are here if you want to become an active member again. This is not a site to bash,and judge one another. We are a group of people from all over the place here to support,and give support. We are here to help you out. This isn't only about weight lost. We can talk about our kids,pets,spouse,future plastic surgeries. How you feel. If you have emotional issues. What ever is on your mind. I'M YOUR FRIEND. I'M HERE TO HELP & INSPIRE YOU. Message me ask me questions post it here anywhere. As long as I'm living,and have my hands I will message you back. Any time any day.. I will get back to everyone as soon as possible. It's summer time in NYC so I do spend a lot of time with my kids,but be sure that I will check on the group. have a wonderful day... A reminder I started at 211 pounds I'm now 109 pounds from size 18 to size 1... You can make this tool work for you & or have a NUT or doctor help you out. That's what insurance are for,and dietician if you want to do it the old fashion way. I don't blame you. Surgery is serious...

I only do a lot of walking. I will start the Shaun T starting Monday. I can't over do it cuz I need to gain weight to transfer the fat to my butt. So if I exercise I won't have any fat to transfer that's why I'm only walking. Let me explain. I burn off 90% of my fat because I did exercise like crazy & walk crunches you name it. I was determine to lose weight & when I saw my surgeon he was shock in 3 months I lost all this weight. So I cut down but did crunches my belly got flat I only have saggy skin. After seeing I'm saggy. I reach 109 pounds I saw a plastic surgeon that needs me to gain weight 15/20 to transfer all that to my butt. That's why I not exercising. I'm holding into my fat. Need it fir surgery next year.

That would be a good thing but if you have the I don't give a rat butt about your surgery or your feelings you are stuck smelling the pizza pie. I don't want to be mean but even from that moment the md put me on that 28 day diet 2 liquid if I made it threw I said hell yeah! I'm gonna get slim. I was tired of being fat & refuse to have pizza & junk control my life. Do I crave it? Honestly barely I have had it but I can easily pass it & have an apple fruit salad. I know they say easier said then done but I had WLS and I survive. I'm alive I eat healthy so I made it. I reach goal so anyone can make it.

I'm going to be brutal here & I'm very sorry but... I'm 109 pounds because I have will power. I didn't change my family menu. Who had surgery me why? Live longer have energy get slim. I can't stop my hubby from wanting a slice or sitting at the dinner table. He is not fat & it would be rude for me to ask him to leave cuz I have no self control or will power. Before we had surgery we knew our family eat chips & junk food. I do all the cooking & shopping. I buy chips why should I stop. I change my life style not my family. I fried meat why not that's what I cook. I give my kids soda mainly weekends. juice. I buy them McDonald but not often. I had surgery not my family. I can't change there life or my cooking. I can only change my self. If it was going to bother me so much watching my family eat I would had reconsider the decision of WLS. Plz have will power & be strong. You change not your family. No one wants to be force to eat salad when they are used to pork chops. Have a broccoli when they are used to pizza. Have low fat chips when they are used to regular. I would hate to have someone try to change me. I know I'm gonna make enemies & get pinch like my Italian friend say but I went into this surgery knowing everything junk soda all. I'm not getting fat ever again. I refuse!!! They can eat the junk I'm good with my cafe & fish and healthy stuff. I hate being fat & refuse to be fat again... Will power will power will power... It's hard he'll yeah. You want to be fat or slim down not a size 1 like me but he'll yeah not plus size. I love you all I'm sorry I had to speak up!! Be strong

Congrats girl

At 1 month it's soft food stage. Did it agree with you? If it did then it should be fine.

August is around the corner

Thanks suddenly I became like so knowledgable. I help everyone. I feel like so special. I even took the guy from Starbuck to the girlfriend job the other Starbuck. He said he didn't feel feel. I offer him a ride. That was today I'm gonna do the autism walk for my son. I have a gift that's a gift so I'm sharing. I been having good luck everywhere except this marriage lmbo can't have it all lmbo

I wanted to be slim & did it. I knew with my silly diets losing her & there regaining wasn't for me. I needed & wanted a permanent solution so I had WLS. When your not sure like I mention before get a dietician & see if that works for you. WLS isn't for everyone. You need to want to change. I made a life style change. Diet? Me no way I just eat my way thin.

You will get there I'm here for you

Fingers crossed

You need to change your name to curvy woman. You have a really nice figure. Looking awesome keep up the good work

During my monthly I would drink soda but when I'm normal soda makes me vomit big time. My body craves soda & salt & chocolate any other time I see soda & push it to the side

You got this girl. Focus nothing feels good as being thin does

You look great

May I add. I try to eat 1200 a day sometimes I make it other times I don't. I also have the my fitness pal food log. It's closed due to having my monthly but on Monday I will have it open. I'm a very realistic person if I have cafe from Starbucks with extra whip I write it down. I'm not ashamed but I'm gonna buy the sugar free & carry it with me lmbo I'm a tiny woman now but it's getting difficult. I had to say no to a bite not slice of pizza today. I do occasionally eat pizza but today it's not the day. Idk if I'm gonna vomit it & it was a new place & I was very far from home. I ate my emergency cashews I keep in my car. I keep food in my car yeah nuts & Jerky. You never know believe it or not I still at 12 months I forget to eat if I'm busy. Stay focus and heck we are all human. Eat & enjoy in portion size. If you over do it one day won't harm you like my buddy here says holidays & such it's meant to enjoy its not everyday