TinyMamiOf3kids

Since I'm now officially slim/tiny woman. I want to reach out to those that are struggling with thinking about having WLS,and if you don't want to have WLS I'm still here for you. It's very easy to judge a book by it's cover with out knowing or walking in the other person's shoes. WLS isn't for everyone,and let's face it we are human. If we are here it's cause we have a weight issue/problem,and we want to live a long healthy life for our self spouse family,and of course kids,and who know our pets need some love from us. There was one point in my life I was doing so great I got selfish,and neglected the group,but it wasn't with the wrong intentions I felt I didn't fit in anymore,but guess what? I fit in why? I'm here to inspire you,and make you believe,and know I'm a real person not a computer. I'm human. I have emotions. I have a family. I have goals. I have a life. I have kids. I'm your friend. I'm your support system. I'm here for you in good times,and bad times. I send out a bunch of messages this morning for members I haven't seen post in over a year. Did they reach goal? Did they regain? Did they move? Who knows,but we are here if you want to become an active member again. This is not a site to bash,and judge one another. We are a group of people from all over the place here to support,and give support. We are here to help you out. This isn't only about weight lost. We can talk about our kids,pets,spouse,future plastic surgeries. How you feel. If you have emotional issues. What ever is on your mind. I'M YOUR FRIEND. I'M HERE TO HELP & INSPIRE YOU. Message me ask me questions post it here anywhere. As long as I'm living,and have my hands I will message you back. Any time any day.. I will get back to everyone as soon as possible. It's summer time in NYC so I do spend a lot of time with my kids,but be sure that I will check on the group. have a wonderful day... A reminder I started at 211 pounds I'm now 109 pounds from size 18 to size 1... You can make this tool work for you & or have a NUT or doctor help you out. That's what insurance are for,and dietician if you want to do it the old fashion way. I don't blame you. Surgery is serious...

Good luck to you it's very hard. The government is nuts. If you have one dollar extra you get no help.

Sitting in the bathroom crying. I'm not a crying person. Emotional + caring yeah but crying me wow!!! I'm actually hurting. I didn't realized I had feelings. For the 1st time in my life I'm not getting my way. I was a teenager when I got married. I learn everything from working to cooking to cleaning. I thought I was the perfect wife. Omg! I wasted my life. Have 3 kids. Always depended on him to take care of me. Yeah I went to school & had a great job. He promise to take care of me forever. I believe it. I was a teenager. I went into the 20's now I'm in the 30's... I could have done better with my life. The only thing I love are my kids. I have to be the world most dump stupid woman. Now I feel like a Total jerk. God must have other plans for me.

You look great!

Omg that sounds so wonderful. Do getting a message when you have back problems help you out?

We are here fir you.

I saw my surgeon 3 times. 1st visit consultation make sure this is what I wanted. 2nd to bring him all the paper work that I saw the nut & dietician then 3rd schedule surgery

Hey girl... Have a wonderful trip take pix & I'm sure that bathing looks fabulous on you.

All the best & it sucks. I didn't call ever my PCP then surgeon was on top of everything so easy as pie. I do agree when you want or need something be on top of it. Like I'm fighting for my SSD. I'm not giving up!

You look great

Me too

Wait a minute. I was suppose to married bevy boo lmbo

I just got a called to come in & see the state doctor tomorrow at 4:30pm What should I expect to happen now? This is about SSD. Wish me luck

Up date: saw the doctor seem pretty nice guy doctor. Did the exam & wish me luck at the end. The doctor for the X-ray wasn't there so I can go when I want just for X-ray so I'm going Monday.

I always wonder what is was like to be tiny,and i'm on the other side now my 16 year old is gaining weight lmbo. Ha! Now I used to say to her I always wanted a waist like yours,but she is growing a belly not "huge" but I'm like I don't want your body anymore LMBO she just looks at me. I saw watch next year I will have the body I want. She would never make me feel bad,but she would say I don't think that looks good on you stuff like that,and I know she didn't want ppl talking about me. She was up set when one of her now ex friend said I was not pretty this is going back 3 years or so. My 5 year old did tell me mind you I lost 102 pounds but this was a while back you have a big belly. If she thinks it's big now I wonder what she thought when I couldn't see my cuca,but she's so cute. I like hearing her talk to me cuz she little,and she started talking 2 years ago so it's fun to know what she thinks,but she gives me awesome compliments. I like your purse your hair,your shirt ect... She tells me you bought another slipper why? you have these she takes them out. I explain I was gonna do my pedicure but I didn't have time,and notice I ran out of money. Then I said are you getting like your father asking me why I bought something? She starts laughing no mom I just wanted to know why you bought another pair. kids LMBO

I only post my feelings & issues here & on Don group on Facebook but I'm detail here not there. I don't have a best friend well I do but we haven't had marriage conversation she is a busy woman & I don't want her concern to the point to say leave him & come here with all the kids! That's how she is. Well hubby was telling me. I feel you are planning on leaving me. I love you & I know I get mad at you a lot but I love you. I don't want a surprise you should be honest enough to tell me if your planning on leaving me. I told him I'm not leaving him since its in my plans but nothing is official. He know he needs to change & I think it's too late for that. What you think?

Oh my... Lets help it's smooth for me. If not I'm getting a attorney to fight my case. You know what's screw about all this. Approve or deny my back will not get better either way but if approve makes its easier money wise for me & I can take my kids out more often.

I'm keeping it real. When I say I eat healthy I actually try. I'm able to eat what I want in moderation but I chose not to eat whatever I want. I do eat rice but I'm cutting down. I say I don't eat bread but I eat tomato mazerella from Starbucks that's bread a different kind but its bread. So that I try to avoid it yes. Soda I crave it during my period but after its over I don't want it & if I have it I vomit. I had occasional pizza & fiesta steak salad from Taco Bell,

I'm so looking forward to next year 2014 2014 is my year... I'm getting a make over from head to toe. I'm going to be a completely different woman LMBO watch out might get kid nap & lock in the closet by my still hubby

That sucks!

Wow! This is money I put in not hand out. Tough crowd ugh. Should I show some boobs?