TinyMamiOf3kids

I'm also sorry if I said something wrong. I feel I was being attack because I'm not over 100 pounds over weight. I love this group & want to keep the peace.

Are you sure you don't want to wait just a little longer. This surgery is expensive with out insurance. Wishing you luck you will be a success.

That's right. We are a cool bunch.

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You have no idea how happy that makes me feel. To hear you can keep food down. Sometimes I get so into the members I feel like family. I be like I wonder where this person is when im home clean cooking doing whatever away from the group LMFAO. First time ever today had to block someone. I felt like I was arguing with my husband.

BTW your doing great only 65pounds to go...

I finally figure it out. Go to your settings,and go down and it says ignore in the listing put his name & there you go. It's like magic don't have to see his comments ever again.

Ok let me log on line & block him. Waste of time huh!

Quick fix my a..... Don't be a hater.

Trying not to laugh but it's true. When I was a smoker I smoke in pravite area my basement is separated from the rest of the apartment. A corner of the back of where I worked. If kids walked by I move or blow another direction. I respect people space.

I been threw all the stages. It does get better. First month oh throwing up I said holy shit wtf did I do to my self. The second month I was great then came a time my stomach closed did the endoscopy they open my pouch up a little & no more problems ever. I feel great! Hang in there... Everyone doesn't heal the same or can go shopping the next day after I came out the hospital. You will be fine.

I'm going to be 3 months. Had only 1 slice of papa John pizza the slice is tiny not like regular pizza places like 2 weeks ago since I was leaving the beach with my family. Now sometimes I eat half frozen Celeste pizza for lunch. I don't eat much. Taking my self out to UNO for steak tips & mash potato when I hit 6 months.

Hello, Gosh! I hate having people knowing what I'm dealing with,but my good friend moved to Florida,and I lost all my friends once I got with my husband. I had a best friend guy,and my husband found a photo of him,and said I didn't know you were into black guys. I said he's my best friend. He said there's no such thing as a boy/girl best friends. So growing up I didn't have a computer so yeah I wanted a computer once I got with my husband,and my computer became part of my world. I meet my best friend on line she's Jamaican,and we are still friends. I meet other people,but it didn't work out. So the few people I do know are my neighbors. So I rely,and depend on the computer for communication,and to interact with other people. I'm having a hard time with my marriage now. We are in marriage counseling,but my husband is a totally different person with the counselor,and is a whole different person once she leaves. I'm trying hard to hang on to this marriage,but I feel it's over,and I have done everything I can to try to save it. Arguement today: Me, 8pm why don't you order a pizza. him, nothing Time passes: I'm feeding my kids him: since you been on this diet you put everyone on a diet. I told you this was going to happen. Me, I'm not on a diet. I cook all the time. I told you to order pizza at 8pm and it's passed 9pm.. He then continue saying your going to have to pay your own bills. How much is my half of the phone bill? I said we have a family plan and we just renew it. If you felt this way you should had let me know before the contract was renew. He also told me to get a job. I said are you going to watch the kids? He said no that would be your problem. I said ok then I will see what happens. I also said tomorrow your gonna be all happy as if nothing happen. Well here is the real deal.... He is always accusing me of cheating which I'm not. I go threw my moments where I won't cook for a day. He says someone is putting things in my brain. Who? I don't have any friends. I get two checks per month and in total is under $700 How do I pay my bills which is I say $500 minium payment in total. Then also buy grocery & on top of that buy diapers. It's impossible for me to do all that. If I get a job,and it's minium wage my kids disability will be cut or maybe taking away. If I'm not going to be making tons of money it's not worth me working. Oh god I don't know what to do. At this moment I know I'm near finishing my bills,but I can't do it on my own. My back is messed up so I'm trying to apply for social security not SSI. I can't even sleep. I'm hear thinking what I'm going to do.

That sucks! It's ok I have so many options that I didn't know about.

Yesss! Finally get to see you glad you posted. You look great! I don't think you need to lose more. In my eyes you are skinny already. I feel your pain. My son hit me in the nose with his head a few weeks ago. Thanks god it didn't break.

I was vomiting non stop for a week. I called my surgeon they schedule endoscopy. Ny stomach closed so tight. They open it up a little. I'm normal now. Keep calling & getting checked. Something must be wrong.

I'm defending the original poster. I didn't need to lose 100lbs or more but I was having knee issues & my asthma was getting bad. I have no other health problem. I fought for my rights & I'm a person that gets what I want. For my height 5foot I was obese at 211lbs. My surgeon says I should go down to my starting weight that's 140lbs putting me to lose 71lbs. I decided I want to be 125lbs putting me to lose 87lbs. I saw my self getting fatter each time. I have 3 kids. 15 year old 4 year old 2 year old. I didn't want to die at age 33. I did everything requested & required of me & got approved. Now at 157lbs later almost 3months I'm very happy & this was the best decision I made. If your classify as being over weight it could be by 50lbs you can have surgery as long as you have great doctors like mine to approve you & a good insurance company to cover it. In this world you need to fight for what's right. I believe I would be bigger by now if I didn't seek help to lose this weight & I did do many diets. This was my best & longest results & I can't stop saying I'm very happy with my decision.

Welcome to the group! I feel great my scale doesn't say 211 anymore I'm 157 and wow! It's a great feeling

Now I gotta check my calendar. Lolz that's correct Friday to Friday is a week but it's confusing when you go to the following month. Like idk how many weeks total I have I know I'm almost 3 months this Thursday.

Young & how much weight you were before surgery. My arms are starting to sag but nothing surgery can't fix.

Welcome to the group. Your in the right group & we accept all. I think there was one member that decided surgery wasn't for her & we didnt judge or anything. We support each other here no matter what.

You know what after quitting I can't stand the smell so I yell at people saying you not only wanna get cancer but you wanna give me & my kids cancer. So you can say I became bitchy when it comes to people blowing smoke in my face.