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I'm coming from a curiosity of why a choice made to so possitively change ones life leaves some "offended " of others noticing and being offended or uncomfortable when they are complimented on their efforts. I merely gave support to the individual who specifically became obese to "be invisible " to men. There is help for her or anyone else who may have real life social issues. I'm not being judgemental. I'm being supportive. That's where I'm coming from. I'm merely trying to understand why some people get offended by others noticing a good thing ad being more healthy. I don't see how much more simple I can put it. I'm all in for SUPPORT.

Compliments from men bothered you / struggled with male attention / ate yourself to being "invisible" to men. This kind of thinking cries out for professional therapy. It saddens me to know of your struggles. I'm truly sorry you feel that way. Honestly. The best to you and I hope you get help to deal with your inner feelings and possible past trauma. There is help out there.

Seems lime a good enough answer for me :)

To say that a obese person is the "same person" is up to perception. Being an obese man "I am not the same person " as I was at "normal healthy weight. I can't do the things I used to. I don't have some kinds of confidence I used to. I don't think about myself likevi used to because "I'm obese ". Obesity is life threatening and a major contribution to premature death. Most people know this. Therefore the recognition of being more healthy. Since people don't have your health docs to refer to why not take the compliment of recognition of better health rather than judge others for kind comments about your weight loss. It's a mental perception that I feel many here ontthis thread should reconsider as "bothersome " than recognition of better health. (Of course I would not be referring to rude sexist comments of a negative nature) Again, I'm not here to be negative. I am trying to understand why ones would be bothered by the recognition of looking and BEING a more healthy human.

Oh man!!! I remember when I had armpits :(

I don't get this at all. Ones here go to great lengths to loose weight .....then you don't like it when people notice??? I'm not being offensive I just don't understand this kind of mental thinking. When I get sleeved I will be happy that people notice a slimmer me. I won't be bothered by it. I just don't get it. What's going to make you all happy??? That is a serious Serious question.

Coykoi.....I'm keeping up with you and your progress. Please post again

How are the December sleevers doing

OK everyone, I'm needing Gmail accounts so I can start emailing directly to the ones who are going to be on.... This should be exciting and INFORMATIVE to many. PLUS, many may get a chance to meet ones they have talk to on VerticalSleeveTalk! I will be PMing ones for their Gmail Me Direct: VSG101@gmail.com (Kevin)

Hello all, My name is Kevin and I will be hosting a Google Hangout Session about VSG soon. The original thread is here: http://www.verticalsleevetalk.com/topic/64414-google-hangout-i-will-be-hosting-a-hangout-soon/#entry635097 I was told to post this on the "front page" of our site here. I'm looking for these kinds of great people: - Post Op VSG surgery - Pre Op VSG Surgery - Complete new person with basic questions - A Doctor (VSG) - Long term VSG person (preferably over 1-3 years) - Anyone who has good knowledge on VSG in general This will be fun and very informative. Even if you want to recommend someone...let me know, I will contact them. Thanks! Things you will need: - WebCam and Mic -Gmail account - willingness to converse - Informative - Preferably on this Vertical Sleeve Talk website LETS have some fun and also educational! Kevin Youtube page: http://www.youtube.com/user/TheVSG101

Great Beatriz.... much appreciated...we all are going to have fun.

HI Laura-Ven. I have not had my surgery yet, I am in the beginning stages (Confirming my Anthem Blue Cross coverage yada yada) I have not talked to a doctor yet, but am planning very soon. I'm nervous but anxious also in the procedure. I have done my research and VSG is my choice. "its time". When was your surgery? How are things? you can PM me or post here.

Please pass the word on if you think someone would have good information to talk about..... i'm gearing up to start up questions and dialog on this. Thanks.... it should be great.

YUP... Please send me your Gmail information. I will get with you. VSG101@gmail.com Thanks!

Ya...I may be in the wrong area to get people to participate. Im sure there sre ones willing to share their experience ir ask questions on face to face video group chat.

This is going to be a great way to let multiple ones speak about VSG..also questions/answers of real people.

Hmmm....still waiting for ones to have a group video chat.

Gmail account is SUUUUUUUUPER easy. YOu get google+ free with it. all freeee easy too. ***

Here is the LINK http://www.youtube.c...VA?feature=mhee **** PLEASE SUBSCRIBE to get the link to ALL the videos that will be given SOON***** SO........ who else would like to VIDEO CHAT? And WHEN?

I'm looking for these kids of people for the Video Hangout Session 1)Someone who has been sleeved OVER 1 year. 2)Someone who has recently been sleeved 3)Someone who has questions about the proceedure (not been sleeved 4)Someone who feels the VSG has changed their life so VERY much. 5)Someone who has a big knowledge base on VSG (this can be a Doctor to attend with us) ROOM for 1-3 others Post up here. Thanks!! , Kevin

Great.... I'm sure many may want to do this.... The Date will be announced LATER....when we have 9 excited people including me. Please PM me your Gmail address for future reference. Kevin

Helps much!!!!!

Oh niiiiiiiiice. I actually never talked to anyone with this surgury. Is there a support group here in San jose that you know of?

Thanks! I actually live just minutes from Good Sam hospital. I have Anthem blue cross insurance...any others the same?

I'm in San Jose, Looking for support group in San Jose, OR SAN FRANCISCO(?) I'm still looking to choose the best doctor in San Fran or San Jose. Suggestions??