I had surgery10-31-2011-------I added carafate to my list and it has helped, but still feel like gravel in my esophagus, hope it is not an ulcer. Isnt that quick to get an ulcer? And you are so right, someone is always thinking I have messed up having the surgery. I have lost 52 lbs, but have been staying the same now for about 2-3 weeks,. I have problems eating the food for a diet, and am eating soft foods for my stomach.Cant help but worry about losing the weight.