The wife tells me today that she is 100% against my surgery and threatened to leave me if I go forward with it!! WTF! She says she likes a heavy guy and I didnt mind being big but now Ive got health problems to go along with it. High blood pressure, shooting pains in my legs and im prediabetic. She let it slip when she was yelling at me that girls will be all over me, which no matter how much I wish were true will never be the case. Is she really worried about me/us or is it a jealousy issue?