BigDonSloba

The wife tells me today that she is 100% against my surgery and threatened to leave me if I go forward with it!! WTF! She says she likes a heavy guy and I didnt mind being big but now Ive got health problems to go along with it. High blood pressure, shooting pains in my legs and im prediabetic. She let it slip when she was yelling at me that girls will be all over me, which no matter how much I wish were true will never be the case. Is she really worried about me/us or is it a jealousy issue?

Great advice guys. I know I can not afford to put off this surgery not and expect to live long enough to walk my babygirl down the isle. I told her I would be more than willing to get some counciling and i try to affirm my love for her daily. I don't want to come off to you all like I hate my wife or see her as an amtagonist she is my world and I just wish we were able to share this journey together.

Yes she is heavy, but I assure her that that is what im attracted too. Even in high school when I was a football player 190lbs of chieseled teenage muscle (sigh) I always went after bigger softer girls. Thats not gonna change.

Hello All Im new to the boards although I been lurking a while. Set to have surg on Sept 1st. I was just wonderin if any of you guys that have had success have noted a change to your body smell and hygeine issues? Im a big guy and I bathe regularly and I notice that I guess cause of the weight my groin and buttock region begins to sweat like 20-30 minutes after a shower! It's kind of frustrating to always feel sweaty and smelly even after I shower, powder and cologne. I feel kinda self concious about it and hope one of the benefits of the weight loss will be better smells coming off of the ol meat and two veg. Sorry if this is gross ladies.