Hello All
i am actually a member of this forum in good standing and felt it neccesary to sign in under an alias to be completely honest. I met my fiancee when we were both VERY overweight, and thru the years we both packed on the pounds. When I decided enough was enough and started to investigate WLS i tried to bring her along on every step of the journey. She kept saying she would do it without "cheating". So here I was after surgery and down 115 pounds with a normal BMI for the first time in my life. And if I can be self serving for a moment, I was a lot more attractive than I ever thought I was. Of course her "not cheating" diet lasted all of three weeks and she went back to her old ways. So i tried to struggle through it, cause I love her right? Wrong! i started to resent everything about her. Coming back from the gym to watch her stuff carvel ice cream cakes in her mouth. Trying to be intimate and not being able to stomach the smell from her girly bits. I was begging her to make some changes with me, you dont wanna get the surgery than fine, but come to the gym with me. make better food choices. I was actually seeing an analyst because I felt so guilty about being so unattracted to her now. It took me time to realize that though I loved her when I was fat, I am a different person now and we are no longer compatible. So I ended it. She hates my guts and thinks that im a shallow ******* now. But I just couldn't pretend anymore. OK LADIES, LET ME HAVE IT!
