It has been 4 years since my surgery. I needed to lose at least 100 lbs I lost about 40 lbs then never lost anymore. I got so depressed about it and felt like such a failure that I finally quit trying so hard and eventually quit trying at all. Of course I have put the 40 lbs back on. I am sure my sleeve is stretched out now. I am considering having gastric bypass now.. Any suggestions? I feel like such a failure.