Just looking for advice is a great 1st step. I was on 9 medications before I had the lap-band. Now I am on 2. My blood pressure was 180/130. I was told that I wouldn't live to be 40. I have two young children so I knew I had to do something. I didn't know if I was heavy enough to qualify, but with all of my co-morbidities-I Did!!! At first it was like a fantasy, because (this may sound crazy) I really wanted and dreamed of the lap-band or another surgical intervention. I have dropped 56 pounds in 10 months. It has been a lot easier for me than for some. I want to stress- I do exactly what my doctor says!!!!I don't chew gum, etc. I have come this far, why would anyone want to screw a sceond chance at life up. My life has changed tremendously for the better since I had this life-saving surgery. You will not believe it until you do it. Less meds, less joint pain, no more high blood pressure, sleep apnea all but gone, depression gone, higher self esteem, more physical activity, way more energy ( take your vitamins and protein). Don't waste anymore of your precious life! let me know if you have anymore questions!