Valentina
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Favorite Milestones So Far?
Valentina replied to DavidOso's topic in Weight Loss Surgery Success Stories
For me: Entering into Onederland Losing my sweatpants while surf fishing for a Striped Bass Being approved for skin removal surgery Finding friends on BP Being able say, "Prayers going up" and not being mocked for it. -
Thank you all, Friends. This year, for the first time since WLS/John's suicide I tried to smile more than cry. I don't think that I will ever spend a June 6th without tears, but at least for THIS June 6th, I am about 50% tear free. That is mostly because of a precious few here on BP. I've had to weed my way through some very hurtful snarks, but you, my friends keep me focused on the good stuff and remembering that I am worthy. Thank YOU. Today, 5:06 PM
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Exactly what she ^^^ said. I am 5yrs out (today) and have been taking Vit. D, B12, B complex, Calcium and a Multivitamin ever since and will continue to do so. Not a bad sacrifice for all of the rewards I've received . Call your bariatric team about whether a surgery postponement will be necessary. Only they will know what's right for you and your hubby. Keep us posted. Prayers going up.
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No lie....I would kill for salad
Valentina replied to areader4life's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I know of your pain! You must consult with your bariatric team and get their sage advice. They will know what is best for you. However: This is what I did----after getting approval from my bariatric team. I put some peeled cucumber, seeded tomato,basil and chives into a blender with some olive oil,pinch of sweetner and balsamic vinegar---blended the "pulp" out of it and had a small glass of "ambrosia of the Gods". I was soooooo sick of sweet, sweet, sweet that just the thought of drinking one more Protein shake had me gagging. I was approved to have one of my liquid salads three times a week. It really helped me get through the liquid diet phase. Now, if I were to do the liquid salad again, I would add some nutritional yeast, so there would be some protein in the drink. Good luck and remember---you are not alone with your salad yearning. Keep posting and letting us know how you make out. Why? Because we care, Silly! Prayers going up. -
Wonderful posting, ladies! I used to put my daily pill vial in my bra where, at times the vial would still be there--nicely tucked under one of the girls the next morning! I think I remember putting items in my bra pocket and NEVER finding them again--like socks in the dryer. However, last surf fishing trip, I lost: my pill vial, loose change, my car keys (that was a big mess), and a well capped fishing lure! I have come to the conclusion that I have gone from a 44C to a 38 extra long. Oh, bother... @Christinamo7--you really do need to place a copy of your "new selfie" and post it on your mirror! What a wonderful gift to yourself. You are having an amazing journey. Hang on and enjoy the ride!
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My surgery date is 7/27 so I'll have a whole year to get back down to the shore. I'll keep you posted. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App I'm holding you to that!! I'm having skin surgery this summer, so a 2017 rendezvous it will be!! The ocean will wait...
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June 6th--five years since my sleeve surgery---five years since John's suicide. So many memories--too many.
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Thank you all, Friends. This year, for the first time since WLS/John's suicide I tried to smile more than cry. I don't think that I will ever spend a June 6th without tears, but at least for THIS June 6th, I am about 50% tear free. That is mostly because of a precious few here on BP. I've had to weed my way through some very hurtful snarks, but you, my friends keep me focused on the good stuff and remembering that I am worthy. Thank YOU.
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Protein shakes make me bloated
Valentina replied to fancy4life's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Time to check in with your bariatric team. They will have the answers for you. I hope it's as simple as changing brands. I'm hope'n! Be sure to post and let us know what your team tells you. We care and , YES-- we are nosey!!! Prayers going up for you, Friend. -
Hello, Friend, I spend most "Striper Seasons" in Laurence Harbor, NJ. ---surf fishing. So, here's the plan: When you are ready to "conquer the dunes", let me know and "conquering we will go". Whenever you want---"The New Jersey shore beckons"! You will be amazed how soon that day will come. Keep posting , so I will know to be ready!!! Prayers going up for you and your "beach bum" journey. :0
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7 weeks Post-op FULL OF REGRETS
Valentina replied to luisadoris's topic in Weight Loss Surgery Success Stories
Please let us know what your bariatric team has to say. We want to know--because we really care. Feel better. Prayers going up. -
So I finally heard it tonight!
Valentina replied to cowboys4life's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
So, you're just sitting there watching TV with the family and your wife spews out, "You cheated because you had the gastric sleeve". Really? Just like that? I acknowledge that what she said was hurtful and spiteful. Not well done by her. BUT Even a pancake has two sides. What preempted her saying such a thing???? Were you having an argument? Were you having a discussion about weight loss and something was said that hit a nerve with her? I'm having a difficult time finding the connection between just watching TV with the family and your wife deliberately demeaning you----in front of the family. What really happened, Friend? -
I buy it at my area health food store--bulk. I can get a quart for about $5. Amazon and Walmart sell it, but as a seasoning, therefore much more expensive. Happy hunting! It is a wonderful find.
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How Has WLS Changed Your Social Life?
Valentina replied to Alex Brecher's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
I really haven't had a social life since John's suicide. Coming back to BP was my first attempt to reconnect with people. For the most part I have been met with what I perceive as heartfelt caring and support. I thank those fellow posters. You know who you are. You are the reason I am now able to peek into the "public arena" again. I still have not allowed myself to become too close to anyone. Not yet, but, one day at a time. Baby steps, right?- 32 replies
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Making New Friends
Valentina replied to Inner Surfer Girl's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
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Have you tried them grilled or roasted with a sprinkling of nutritional yeast and crushed garlic??? Yummmmyyyy. My daughter(33yrs) and I eat them as a snack. The roasted nutritional yeast tastes like toasty cheese.--and it adds 8gr of Protein
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I had my sleeve surgery June 6, '11, and spinal surgery Dec., '13. I had L2, L3, L4, L5 reconstructed. Both of my legs are numb, but painful to the knees. I have two rods and 8 screws holding my spine stable. I revisited my Orthopod because my back pain is back==different, and not as bad as pre=op, but still bothersome. I will have more spinal surgery to reconstruct L1 when "I am ready". Have you shared you PT findings with your Orthopod? There may be some scar tissue building up== only my guess. It's worth a follow up to discuss your PT findings, isn't it? Don't give up. You and we all deserve to be pain free if at all possible. Don't give up on yourself. I haven't. Prayers going up for you, Friend.
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What are you doing post op you haven't done in a long time (or ever)
Valentina replied to LisaMergs's topic in The Lounge
Well. crap! I thought I was doing wonderful things like taking surf fishing back up and actually sub coached my grandson's little league game last week. It was wonderfully fun. But you people make me feel like I'm standing still. Well done, my friends. Well done! Happy prayers going up. -
For me and Gucci (my Chinese crested): grilled Skate wings, grilled Brussel sprouts with nutritional yeast, homemade apple sauce. Yum
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NEW POLICY: Editing Posts
Valentina replied to Alex Brecher's topic in Website Assistance & Suggestions
Yet, you "liked" the above post. Is this where I send prayers up to all? Now that you mention it----. Prayers going up----especially for you. -
NEW POLICY: Editing Posts
Valentina replied to Alex Brecher's topic in Website Assistance & Suggestions
My mother always told me not to call people ugly names. -
Approved for skin removal!!! 1st time was the charm. I am estatic!
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Septoplasty/Rhinoplasty Recovery -Struggling to Eat
Valentina replied to melyssafaye's topic in Plastic & Reconstructive Surgery
By all means, reach out to your surgeons. They will know what's best. As an old fashion gal, I would recommend some bone broth with nutritional yeast sprinkled on top. Let us know how you're doing. We do care Prayers going up. -
4yrs out complications need sleeve to bypass need feedback help
Valentina replied to marie110's topic in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums
Did you have your testing done at the same place where you had your sleeve surgery? If so, are they willing to do the conversion? I'm not sure what #4 is. Can you "splain it to me, Lucy"? I'm so sorry you are having issues. Hopefully with a wee bit more info, you will find some answers. Prayers going up. -
My "normal" EKG is "abnormal" to the "norm"... It has been since birth and will continue to be until death. Pre-op for any procedure is deferred to cardiology notes and views within my medical record. Some of us just live to with a heart of a different beat. Just have cardiology review your case and go on from there. --just another bump in the road of your WLS journey. All will be well. Keep posting. We care----and are really nosy! Prayers going up.
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Social Isolation
Valentina replied to Inner Surfer Girl's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
It goes round and round, doesn't it? When food is our only comfort--our only friend, we don't need to socialize where we are "hurt" and ostercised , so we stay home where food is there to comfort us--our only friend...
