my husband, me and the sleeve, i think threes a crowd. me and my husband have a very common thing and that is food. we like to bbq, go out to eat, we celebrate milestones with food, i mean food is a big connection for us. i am getting nervous that if i cant eat very much that we will become disconnected. i am scheduled for 03-07-11. he does not want me to have this surgery , he says i dont need it, but i have been a big girl all my life and i feel like i need it. so i hope this does not make three's a crowd.