I have been thinking about doing a weightloss surgery for years....I've decided 2011 is the year for me as well. I too have been under a great amount of stress, also helping with care for my father who in the last two years has had severe health problems that have been dehabilitating for him....he's wants me to do this in the worst way, as does the rest of my family....I want to be healthy and I want to be here for my children...i am so happy to have found this support group:)