For too long I let fear keep me from looking into bariactric surgery. Yes there are risks, and it sounds like with your other health issues, it may take a little longer to get to where you want. I am with you on the by pass issue, that is why I opted for the sleeve. I would suggest listening to your medical doctor and get the Non-Specific issue controlled. Do some research on what you can do, eat etc. and set the sleeve as a goal. You don't want one to conflict or complicate the other. As more information and data is available on the sleeve I imagine it will become very popular and acceptable. Hope my 2 cents helped. If you want it bad enough you will find positive people to support and encourage you.