Hi TRL, I have aetna as well. I know that it can be nerve racking I am doing the same thing. What you can do is have your surgeon go to bat for you if you get turned down the first time. Mine said he would do that since my BMI is a 39, sleep apnea too. They have a peer to peer consult. It's an option that I know of. Now that I realize that this is late to your posting I feel a bit dumb but I know my words may help someone else. Oh, and my date is for 10/12/10. (crossing fingers).
Denille