Cardsfan

Hey there everyone! I am a mid-30's male and this is one of my first posts (as I hope to become a regular in this very helpful forum of friends). I am about 10 days post-op on the sleeve (operation was Mon, Aug 30th). My Pre-Op weight loss requirement (no SPECIFIC diet) was 15 lbs...I lost 13.2 but was still sleeved by the grace of God (and one great nurse). I've lost between 5-10 lbs since (simply depends on when I weigh during the day). This approx 30 lb weight loss (415 to 385 lbs) has had an unprecedented amazing effect on my overall feeling of physical well-being and real ability). I was able to roll BOTH trash cans to the curb yesterday without getting "winded". Although that sounds so small, that is HUGE (as I used to have to catch my breath before the long - really short - walk back up the driveway after dropping off the cans). SO - I've had IMMENSE reward with very little effort thus far (relatively speaking). That is the kind of feedback that can really turn people around! That's also why I am so embarrassed to say that I have ALREADY been "cheating" on this program (much like I have every other) to the extent that I can get by with (without getting "caught"). I've not been following some of the rules and have to wonder -- "what is it in my subconscious mind that drives me to "rebel" against things such as this? I'm a mid-30's happy husband and father who generally loves life. But when I feel restrictions put on me (by myself or others), my gut reaction is to asses and rebel (meaning: I figure out how much I can probably get away with and then, by all means, do it). I don't remember the last time I followed the "rules" when it comes to matters such as this (as important as they are). Please forgive my late-night meanderings (as that is pretty much what these are)...but they are true. Is there anybody out there that is reading this thinking, "...yeah, that is me too!" or even better, someone saying "...I also had that problem until..."? I would love to hear from either of you! Best, Cardsfan

Hello! This is my first post -- I just found out that my "tentative" surgery date is Mon, May 24th (that is "scary" close when I look at my calendar). I call it tentative because my surgeon requires that I lose 15 lbs between now and then. I've agreed to bust my tail and try to hit that mark, but am a bit concerned about that much weight starting <ugh> right now! I've always felt a little more comfortable about starting "right away" or "tomorrow"...but it is time to get going!! I wish you the best, Lisa, as it sounds like we are beginning this "new life" within just a few days of each other. I've never had weight loss surgery and am excited and a little nervous about what is to come. I've realized that I am in the minority (both on this board and in real life with the procedure) since I am a man. I also have quite a bit to lose >200 lbs...so let's cheer each other on as we get closer and then afterwards. As long as I have mine on the 24th, perhaps I can tell you what to expect (with three days' warning :-). Best of luck to you and all who are reading this! - Dave