Hi All,
I've been lurking for a few weeks, and have been utterly grateful for the information that I have gotten through your shared experiences, so thought I should go ahead and introduce myself.
My name is Cara, I'm in Coppell, TX (near Dallas), and I'm going to be banded on 4/17. I've been trying to get approved for bariatric surgery for the past six years. This year, I decided it was going to happen no matter what, so I changed insurance from Aetna (fantastic coverage but they will NOT cover no matter what I do) to United HC (So-so coverage, but lots of approvals), and finally got approved.
I'm very excited and apprehensive at the same time. I've been up and down the scale my entire life. I thought I had it licked two years ago when, with the help of Adipex, I lost over 100 pounds. Needless to say, despite all of my rantings about how "I'll never be like that again!" the pill eventually stopped working, and most of the weight is back and I'm miserable.
Right now, it's all about my health-- I have migraines, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Asthma, sleep Apnea-- I just want to feel good again, and I know that losing this weight will help. Not that I won't love going into a department store and not having to head to the plus sized section.
I am hoping to lose about 120 pounds, but I will be happy with anything over 60. My surgeon is Frank Felts at the Surgery Center of Richardson. I've been on my pre-op diet for a week (low fat, high protein) and though I am really tired of sweet shakes, I've already lost 10 pounds. That feels good!
A couple of questions, if anyone has bothered to read this far :-D
- Should I worry that I haven't met my surgeon yet? I've met his staff, his nurse practicioner, etc. but I don't think I'm scheduled to meet him until the morning of the surgery. I really like the place and the people and GOD KNOWS I don't want to wait anymore... but still, I thought I'd ask.
- I have a fantastic, wonderful, loving hubby, who is very supportive of me doing this. But lately, he's been making jokes about how I'm going to get "skinny" (HA!) and leave him. I think he might be a little insecure-- anyone else experienced that?
Wow, I've gone on and on. Thanks for reading and thanks in advance for any ideas you can offer.