Put on makeup...wait..I do that everyday...haha! Irene, I don't mean to sound like a snot, but I DO FEEL beautiful and it is such a wonderful thing compared to so many years of feeling anything but attractive.
I totally agree Jane. It's hard to explain what it's like to be extremely obese and the lies filled in my head for so long that it was okay and pretending that I thought I was attractive. My husband never made me feel any different but inside I was miserable.