mumof2boys
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Oh my goodness...that would scare me to death. I have been pbing a bit lately. In the last two years I have only done it about 6 times but I did it twice in the last week..kinda weird. I hope that nothing is wrong. So...you still think that it's twisted? I wonder how that happened.
I'm fighting a pretty bad cold right now and I hope that it goes away pretty quickly. I have to get it checked out because I think I have a sinus infection or something and I know that you can't have any surgery when you're sick.
Well...I hope that you are doing well and that you don't have any major problems with your tube. Let me know how things are going.
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Thanks guys. Guess what...3 weeks from today is the HUGE day...I'm getting scared to death. I go next Monday to pay for the surgery and to get all marked up to see what they are going to take off. I'm excited but terrified. I need some good vibes sent my way. So...my youngest started t-ball last night and my husband was there (he has become a wonderful father). I was on my cell phone almost the entire time and I know that it was just killing him. I think that deep inside his heart he knows it's over but he just doesn't want to admit it and to be honest he's kinda make me feel guilty about it. I didn't cause this...I didn't want my marriage to end...I never wanted to divorce...however, I will not be with someone that I cannot trust. So...I am truly loving my new life. Keep sending those good vibes to me...I need to stay strong and I need to not worry about this surgery...it's for the best, right? I'm gonna be a hot mama afterwards, right???
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Hey there...I am actually doing great. It's tough on me to see my husband have such a hard time but to be honest with you...I haven't been this happy in a very, very long time. I'm loving life...I have a new love for myself and I'm taking care of me and my kids. The only thing bothering me right now is that I'm scared to death of my upcoming surgery. It is in 3 weeks from today and I'm horrified. I go next week to pay for it and to get "marked up" to see what they are going to remove. The recovery is scaring me to death. Other than that...I couldn't be any better. How are you doing?
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Well hello ladies (and gentlemen). The party was a success. We all had a wonderful time and there were $1,000 in sales so I got $100 in free stuff. Afterwards we went to the local watering hole (real small place) and had a couple of drinks. It really was fun. On Saturday I went to a bar where I know the bartender and had a couple of drinks while waiting for my girlfriend so we could go to A Chorus Line (I love that show). So...we went there and then met up with a guy from my work who wanted to hang out. This guy is really awesome. He drove downtown so he could hang out. Wasn't that sweet? Well, I got home around 2:30 am and had a blast. I have the kids this coming weekend but I'm also throwing a surprise birthday party for my dad. So...yet another busy weekend on the horizon. I'm doing great...absolutely wonderful...he's having trouble and I don't know what I can do to help him. I don't want to make him mad and make all of this ugly. I want us to get along and be civil for the kids. Thanks so much for caring about me. I love you guys so much. I am loving life right now!!!!!:frown:
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I wish that all of you guys lived near me. We would be having one hell of a party at my house!!!! The suggestions, thoughts, prayers and everything else that you have given me is beyond words. For those of you that aren't too far from me (Charles County, MD)...let me know if you are interested...I'm having an adult female toy party next Friday night at my house. If you want to...you are more than welcome to attend. It should truly be a blast. Anyway....all of you are right. Just so you all know...I am NOT looking for a relationship with anyone...I am just sitting back and enjoying every single bit of all of this. I have never experienced it and I am just beeming like a pregnant woman (NO I'M NOT PREGNANT!!!!!). Anyway...thanks so much to all of you. Much love, ladies. Tina
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You know what...YOU GUYS ROCK! I come here and read what you guys have to say and I just love it. OK...so today is going to be a weird day...let me tell you why... So...the guy that I was talking about before...can't talk to him enough...I truly enjoy talking to him...he's awesome. Then...there's this other guy who sent me a text message that said, "Good night my sexy godess"...Alrighty then...then...there's a guy here at work that is totally flirting with me so I was just gonna come right out and ask him if he was flirting but I don't have to...on my Facebook page my coworker made a picture with my face on Superwoman's body. I made a comment that said, "I look HOT as Superwoman". So...he sent me a private message that said, "You are hot even when not dressed as superwoman...but it doesn't hurt...LOL". So...apparently I have become some magnet. This is ALL new to me...I'm sitting here blushing :thumbup: Goodness ladies...what in the world is going on here? Is it a full moon or something?
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Welcome fellow Marylander...I had to do the 6 month diet and it went by pretty quickly. I had my heart set on getting the band so I had those 6 months to prepare. I'm almost two years out now and I am loving life more than I ever imagined possible. Good luck with everything and if you want a Maryland buddy...here I am!
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Good morning everyone. Well, last night was my first night all by myself. The boys spent the night with their dad. So...I was absolutely fine. Is that wrong? I came home, washed my car, did the dishes and started cleaning the house. It was quiet and of course I missed my boys like crazy but I did fine. Here's what else happened yesterday...ever since that night that I can't remember (the one where apparently I was kissing my brothers friend)...my husband thinks that I have "someone else". So...he started snooping and asked me about a phone number that is on my cell phone bill. It's on there all over the place. It's a guy who has dealt with the same thing that I am going through. I didn't lie to him...I told him...it's a guy that I met whose wife cheated on him with their neighbor...they have two children as well. In talking with this person it helps me. He doesn't understand how I can open up to strangers but I find it easier to do because people don't know me or him so they can be more objective. What do you guys think? Can't wait to hear from you all.
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Girl...there is no stripping naked with this body...lol...4 weeks from today I go under the knife to get rid of this flabby crap. Until then...I'll stay covered up. :laugh: Speaking of the surgery...who the heck am I gonna have come take care of me? I talked to my friend yesterday who had the surgery two weeks ago (minus the boobs) and she said that she needed someone with her 24/7 for AT LEAST the first week. What the heck am I gonna do? I think he's gonna keep the kids that week but who is gonna help me? I can't do it by myself. From what I understand I won't even be able to stand up alone. YIKES.
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Well, another night and everything went alright for me. Tomorrow night will be weird because the boys will be with their dad. I'll be in the house all by myself. That's gonna be different for me. Maybe I'll go to bed early or maybe I'll step out for a bit. Maybe I'll do both...lol... Thanks for continuing to think of me during this time. You guys have really been a big help.
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Cost of your Procedure
mumof2boys replied to Lady Lap Band's topic in Plastic & Reconstructive Surgery
In exactly four weeks from today I'm having a lower body lift and breast lift with augmentation. My total costs, (including the hospital and all follow-ups) is $19,600. Good luck -
Well, here I am...my first Monday morning as a single mom. I'm doing alright...he's not doing so well. I am worried about him but I think he'll get through it. The kids are doing well. I did go out Friday night and I had a very good time. I didn't go overboard and I remember everything:) The incident a couple of weeks ago really scared me so I was extremely careful, plus I didn't have my brother with me to watch out for me. The kids and I went to my brothers on Saturday morning and hung out with him and my sister-in-law while he moved out. The kids were so very well behaved it was kind of strange. Yesterday I dropped the kids off at his place for a couple of hours. He took them to the park and shopping. Things seem to be going alright...he came to the house this morning so I could keep my same work schedule and he took them to daycare for me. So...we are getting along very well and I'm doing well. For now...things are good...thanks for all the thoughts and prayers. You guys rock!!!!!
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You guys are truly cracking me up. I still have my "stress" headache but I just took something for that. I'm gonna try to have an awesome time tonight (whatever I may end up doing) and then it's off to single motherhood. I'll have to get a Barry White collection and keep it on hand because I know those young bucks don't know anything about Barry White....lol...
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What a minute here ladies...I thought this thread was mine. lol....I'm glad that you guys can make me laugh...I really need it, but don't forget to send some love this way!!!!
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You're not upsetting me at all. I couldn't agree with you more. I guess it's just that I could never intentionally hurt someone and I feel like that's what I am doing right now. I know deep down that I'm not but that's just how I am. I guess I have let people walk all over me for so long because of my insecurities that I have just accepted things in the past. This is totally unlike me...to finally take a stand and this is one tough stand to take. Don't get me wrong...it would have been over a long time ago if we didn't have children. I must say that aside from all of this, I truly am loving my life. I have never in my life gotten more attention that I get right now. I know it's probably not the right way to look at it but the attention that I am getting makes me feel so good about myself. If I were still almost 300 pounds I guarantee that I would just accept this and move on. I would probably have thought that I deserved it and it was all my fault. Luckily that's not me anymore. I have become a completely different person. In fact, two nights ago I met up with two gals from my area who had lap band (one I met on here). While we were at the restaurant I was flirting with the waiter. My friend made the comment that I was totally different than I was a year ago. I used to be shy and conservative and now I don't hesitate to talk to people. I know that I shouldn't but I really do feel bad for my husband. I know that he wants nothing more than to be able to see his children every day. You're right though...he did this...he wasn't thinking about me or them when he was screwing her or the other one(s)...so...I just have to stay strong. I think that I'll go out tonight since it will basically be my last night with someone in the house who can watch the kids. I'll have to take advantage of it...not to mention I don't want him to try to talk me into letting him stay. I really do appreciate everyone on here. You guys have been helping me with for almost an entire year. I really can't believe it's been that long. Now...my focus is on my kids, me and my upcoming surgery. Woo Hoo Tina
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Well...tomorrow is the big day...he's freaking out and he's stressing me big time. I have a terrible headache...I can't even imagine how tomorrow is going to be. Me and the boys are going to go to my brothers house and hang out with him and my sister-in-law while he's moving out. I need to get up and go for a walk but it's cold outside...uuuggghhhhh
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Well, tomorrow is the big day. I don't know what to think right now. All that keeps going through my mind is that this time last year I was in Las Vegas while my husband was at home planning his next sexual encounter at a hotel with HER. Man...I have such a headache today. This stress is starting already. I have been doing alright until I got a text from him this morning saying, "Are you sure this is what you want". What I really want is a damn time machine so I can go back in time and change my life (all except my kids and the lapband :laugh:). The kids seem to be doing fine. In fact, I told them that we (me and them) were going to go to my brothers house on Saturday. My oldest said, "Is that when daddy is moving". It will all be different...my life is about to change like I never ever thought that it would.
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Thanks everyone for your thoughts. I am starting to freak a bit but I think it's because I'm worried about him. He's a guy so guy's usually don't talk to one another about these types of things...he is in need of a good friend right now who he can talk to. I don't want him to hurt and I know that he is. I'm going to take the boys and go visit my brother this weekend while he moves out. I don't think it's a good idea for us to be there. It will be too difficult for everyone. I just have to stay strong. I'm really worried about my surgery coming up. I won't have anyone there with me 24/7. I will be in a lot of pain and needs lots of help. My parents are right next door and I know they will help but what if I need something or someone in the middle of the night? I need to stop stressing and just stay strong and continue on with what I'm doing. Everything will work its way out, right?
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Well, in just five weeks from today I'll be under the knife at this time. I am so nervous. I'll be getting a lower body lift and breast lift with augmentation. OUCH
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Good for you!!! I think that I found those 10 pounds that you lost...lol...I have been eating like a cow...I'm sure it's stress related and hopefully it will end soon. I'm doing alright...I told the kids this past weekend that daddy was moving out. Their response was "okay". I cried and my husband cried but I knew that I would get emotional. He's suppose to be moving out this weekend but he's having a hard time finding friends to help him move. Next weekend is my sons birthday party so that will be a little weird but I'll get through it. Anyway...all in all I think I'm doing alright.
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Why do women have anal sex?
mumof2boys replied to Oregondaisy's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
Been there...tried it...didn't like it so much. EXIT ONLY!!! -
Five weeks and under the knife
mumof2boys replied to mumof2boys's topic in Plastic & Reconstructive Surgery
I'm not necessarily going "bigger" but I went in to see how much more it would cost to add a breast lift with the lower body lift. Well, he showed me what I would look like with just a breast lift. Right now I'm wearing a C cup (mind you, they are so saggy it's basically skin stuffed into a C cup) and it would make me an A cup. Oh, hell no. So, I'm going to be a full C but it will be much nicer than I have now. I also think that I'm gonna with with silicone instead of saline. I am so nervous I cannot even tell ya. My girlfriend had gastric bypass five years ago. She has lost 160 pounds and last week she had a lower body lift. She told me that the pain meds. are a MUST. Hearing her say that scared me even more. Good luck to you with your procedure. I'll be thinking about you...we can get through this! -
Me and the boys during the snow storm on Sunday.
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From the album: Fun pictures
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