I had my surgery on may 10th. My kids are grown and I wasn't even going to mention it to them but finally with my husbands encouragement I did. they have been very supportive. I only have 2 coworkers that know and I'm ok with that. It's all personal choice. I've been picky about who I've told because people tend to be critical at times and at others they tend to be over supportive. I have lost 32 lbs and when people ask me how I lost it I say "I'm eating healthy and exercising," and I am.