Thank you so much for your insight! And while it gets harder to lose weight as I get older, my biggest fear is of losing 50 or 60 pounds yet again, be denied the surgery, only to then gain it all back. One perspective I've seen about banding is that while it certainly is directed towards weight loss, it's also a huge aid in maintaining the loss.That's where I have failed over and over again. Just lost another family member to obesity-related disease and am surrounded by others with enormous risk due to HBP, obesity, high cholesterol, kidney disease, etc. I worry about them endlessly -- and then I look at myself and wonder why I can't conquer it once and for all. Why I'm not strong enough to keep it off. I will do the work - I diet and exercise now - but am so looking forward to just that extra help...