tamirn

I must be honest i am terrified in getting into a relationship. I am scared of men at this point. I dont wanna get in a relationship and the guy gets jealous and start acting a fool! Im waiting until after i have had the surgery and after im done with nursing school to even be talking to men at thid point.. Ive passed up a few potential men since i broke it off with my ex sep 2015! Even then he demand i not get the surgery and accused me of being VAIN so i put off the surgery.. Now its time to do me! Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

Did you have surgery? What the update?

I got married in 2019! I hope all is well with everyone!

I am not where I want to be however I am not where I used to be!!! I am 7 months post op RNY!! I did not see how big I was until after I lost weight! I mean I am still trying to take it all in! I am blessed and I feel so much better!

I have to lose weight to shrink my liver fat ... Sent from my SM-N920T using BariatricPal mobile app

Yes my preop weight I have to lose 15 pounds it went from me having to lose 5 pounds to 15 pounds! ugghh Sent from my SM-N920T using BariatricPal mobile app

I was suppose to lose 5 more pounds to get to my goal weight so that I can get my surgery now I have to lose 15 pounds! I dont even know how that happend! Smh.. I need sone encouragement and some tips please! I want to get this surgery DONE.. I am ready to move on with my life and leave this weight behind... ANY suggestions will help!!! Sent from my SM-N920T using BariatricPal mobile app

I do not plan on telling ANY one but close family. Sent from my SM-N920T using BariatricPal mobile app

no.. Sent from my SM-N920T using BariatricPal mobile app

Hmmm. Which Kaiser are you with?? I didnt have to do that. Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App I didnt have to do those classes Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

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I heard with revisions it takes longer. I dont know why.. Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App It takes longer fot revisions to lose weight. Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

Wait not weight.. Lol Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

I understand what you all are saying but i am just not ready for a relationship and dont want one for now. Right now i am terrified of men.. Lol.. I dont think it has much to do with my weight.. I am just choosing to weight until i work on me to get in a relationship Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App He was definitely very insecure BEST decision i made in 2015 was to part ways with him Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

You go girl!! Congratulations cant wait until im there Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

Beautiful! Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

You dont have to tell anyone! Thats YOUR BIZ! you dont owe anyone any explanation.. Guess what?? They still gonna hate! Congratulations! Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

Absolutely beautiful Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

Im at the Richmond Kaiser and yes they weigh us every time we come in for an appointment. I am done with everything accept my psych appt and i have to loose 10 pounds per my surgeon.. After i loose the 10 pounds i will get my surgery date! Almost there Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

Until you get tired is the only way you will leave.. It dont matter how much time you have invested ESPECIALLY if hes not your husband but even then you dont have to sit and et someone dog you on any level... If he cant come correct to hell with him either your big, skinny, LOOSE SKIN, no skin, black, white, green or blue! Noobe deserves to be treated badly. There us someone for everyone.. Dont be so negative! And you never know how your body will look like until you are in that position! Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

Girl you better PREACH!!!!! YOU LOOK ABSOLUTELY AMAZING!!!! hes nothing but a hater!!! SO HE SAYS YOUR BODY GONNA LOOK A MESS??? Hes gonna be one of the men trying to be with you even more once you hit goal weight heck even before that! I just woke up and this was the first notification i seen on my phone this is soo inspirational! This is why i decided to not be with anyone until after i have the surgery because i have heard so many stories of JEALOUSY! its a shame! You would think people would br happy for you for changing your life for the better! Keep your head up many blessings are coming your way! He will definitely REGRET what hes done to u.. Keep shining like a beautiful gem you are! Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

Wow you look great!!! Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

All I had to do was get a referred by my pcp.. Then I had meet with a nut and do 4 bariatric classes that took me 3 weeks to do.. My surgeon gave me a goal weight of 10 pounds to lose.. I'm almost there..once I meet my goal weight and get my psych cleared I get my surgery date! This whole process has taken or will take about 2 months.. I meet with my psych Dr.. In a few weeks. Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

Did they give u a pill to help u fall asleep? Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App

I'm sorry how much I needed to lose Sent from my SM-N920T using the BariatricPal App