Thanks to all who replied to my post. I don't think I am quite ready to pursue this - yet. It sounds like such a wonderful thing to do, but I still have doubts. And, when I think about it too long, I get much too anxious.
I barely fit into the obese end of the BMI - in fact, if I lose even five pounds, I'm out. Maybe I will sit on this for a while longer, try to exercise more and then see what happens. If I can follow a 1,000 calorie diet and exercise, maybe I won't need it.
At any rate, I appreciate all the encouragement and advice. Who knows? Maybe I WILL become a bander - just not right now.
Hugs to all!
Susan