PhoenixTheDiva

I spoke with the co worker and said it had been brought to my attention that she was telling people about my surgery and why was she doing that if we had agreed not to tell anyone. she said she was sorry and said she was jealous because she feels I always get what I want. I told her that that maybe the way it seems to her but that's not true because if that were the case I'd be a millionaire and not need a job! she laughed and I told her that I would support her for her to lose weight but that it would be hard for me to trust her again. and again she apologize and she said she is happy for me and appreciated the fact that I came to talk to her and not want to rip her face off. thank you everyone from the bottom of my heart for your advice and not letting my emotions get the best of me

Simply amazing. Truly an inspiration.

Awesome!!! I'm the 3rd and so excited for all my july sleevers. See you all on the losing side =)

Will be getting a puppy soon after my surgery for my son's birthday! Shhhh, its a surprise.

Good luck and wishing you a speedy recovery

Hey sleevers I have a situation with a co worker who started the process of getting sleeved the same time I did. We said we wouldn't tell anyone we were having it done. I got approved right away and Friday she tells me she was denied I said I was sorry to hear that and maybe she could appeal. She said its not fair I got approved and she didnt. I tried to understand her hurt and anger but told her well I have a bmi of 40 and a co morbidity and she has a bmi of 35 and no co morbidity. Well a little while ago someone just told me she is telling everyone I'm having the surgery. My instincts are telling me to ****** this b**** bald and rip her face off! Before I do that I want to handle this diplomatically. What should I do??? Or say????

Thanks again every one. I truly appreciate every ones input and concern. Please understand I have no intention of causing anyone bodily harm. I also dont feel anyone was telling me to cause her any harm. I apologize for the joke. I just need to vent it out

Thanks you everyone for the suggestion and support. I will let you know how it goes when I talk to her. If no one hears from me it means it didn't go well and I did have to ****** the b**** bald and rip her face off and need to be bailed out! LOL JK

my goodness Laura you are the talk of the forum girl!!! Love you. you always make me chuckle. Keep them coming ; )

I like my curves but definitely can't wait for the improvements and the shopping . Lots of shopping! Lol

You look fantastic! Congratulations. Make sure to give us newbies tips!

What an amazing journey. Congratulations. You are truly inspiring

Glad to hear your feeling much better. Wishing you the best on your new journey B-)

Thanks B-)

Congrats!! Hope I become as lucky!

From one Diva to another, you look Divalicious!! Congrats, good luck and stay fierce!!! ♥

Great. Glad to hear your doing well =)

Thanks soo much and good luck to you Wes04

Thank you Susan and Kathy. AS A Newbie I truly appreciate your compassion, guidance, and most of all your patience.