Welcome, i also suffer from PCOS but I don't have any children yet. that is part of the reason why i am having the lapband and the other is for my health which is most important. I have just starting to lose weight....i just out all the pasta, white rice, and most breads out of my diet....i went totally cold turkey....i also watch my sugar intake no more that 5 grams....but good luck to you and welcome again