Yes, you wrote that. Also, consider yourself corrected.
Yeah, sounds like you're just here for support, not to trash your boyfriend. That was ALL this was about right?
Ooh, I forgot, this is all his fault, he is the one that started this, not you. You drew first blood.
I agree with drtnsnw. I'm not judging you. You each are who you are. In any case, congratulations on your lap band. I hope you find the support (and pschological help) you obviously need. Good luck!