Hi, welcome to the group! I am from Montreal as well. Not many support groups in the city or province, so this is why I turned to this group.
My operation date is on Thursday the 18th. I am single and well, not dating at the moment. I think over the years the scars fade, but let me tell you I have pregnancy scars, so to me it's not a concern. One more, one less. I guess I will only be able to tell you in time.
Would be nice to discuss this with you if you want, just PM me.
take care
Donna