This may seem kind of lame to some people, so please leave your judgments and insults at the door. This is an important issue to me as I am seeking advice. This may seem like childs play to some; but like I said above, leave it at the door.
I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 4 months now. My boyfriend met my parents three weeks after we met. I just recently met his mom about a month ago and met his dad just last week. His brother is in town from New Hampshire and I really want to meet him, too. Family is very important to me. I come from a very small family so I adore times with them. My boyfriend sent me a text last night saying that they all were going to be going out for dinner tonight and he did not even invite me. I kind of take it as an insult that he didn't invite me. I called him out about it and asked him why he didn't invite me. I told him before his brother came into town that I wanted to meet him. He said that he gets nervous and thinks about what if's. That's the most stupidest thing I have ever heard. I understand getting nervous, but thinking about what if's? He then said "I really want you to go!" I kind of feel like I'm inviting myself to everything. He doesn't get this way with his friends. I've met several of his friends and he never acts like this. If he's doing something with his friends, he's very quick to invite me to come along. Is this just a guy thing? I have no clue! It is driving me insane. I'm still pretty upset with him right now. I told him that I'm not going to dinner regardless and that I don't want to see him for a while.
I haven't been in too many relationships to know what this means nor have I gone through something like this. I need to know if something like this has happened before to anyone else. It really irates me and makes me feel like I'm not important enough in his life to get to know his family. My boyfriend tries to assure me that I am very important, but judging by his actions, I just feel differently. It's not something that is worth breaking up with him about, but I feel like if it continues, I might have to think otherwise. Just feel unimportant and an embarassment.
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