I have thought this as well... That there is a look... I can tell sometimes.
That's why I can't not tell people if I'm asked directly.. I would feel like I'm lying... BUT if I was able to keep it to only two people that knew i had the surgery then I would tell people I'm eating right and exercising bc it's no ones business!! I wish I could keep it a secret but the one person I need to tell has a big mouth...