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I've never heard of the approval process working like that?? Where do u live?

I lost 31 lbs during my 6 month diet docs, and I was worried they'd reject me as well and say " oh see she can do it", but my doctor and pa both said both them and insurance companies like when patients lose weight like that because it's shows they're committed to a lifestyle change. I don't think you'll have any problems. Good job on the weight loss so far!

I was nervous too because it seems so drastic a step to take, but I think everyone gets scared. But for me I just reminded myself that the benefits would outweigh the risks. I don't kno about you but I have diabetes, neuropathy, hypertension, anemia, etc and I needed to get them under control. Clearly my previous attempts at dieting went nowhere, ans I'm sure you're the same otherwise you wouldn't have gone this far into the process. Just an FYI- I had my band on 9/11 and have already cut my bp med in half, and cut my insulin amount to less than half! The little bit of soreness and people's rude judgements were worth it for me

Lol what is "f Wang" in my post. What I meant was "I'd feel bad" to bother them

I'm an LPN in LTC. Im taking 3 weeks off because I'm constantly dragging around a huge medcart, picking people up off the floor, and getting them dressed/undressed. My side is still sore and I'm afraid to do heavy lifting. We're always short staffed & everyone is stressed so I would f Wang to bother then to do my work, although I know they would. Also, truth be told, I was getting burnt out so I wanna milk this a little bit lol Karie1275, my work does have insurance BUT it doesn't include vision or dental. How ridiculous that I used to work as a cashier and had top rate insurance, but now in healthcare I have to pay a fortune to deal with my eyes and teeth.

Hmmm maybe that's why I don't feel full then, because I really haven't started on food yet. Thanks for responding. It gives me hope that I'll feel much better once I can actually eat something!

You sound like me at the gym... I'm really just guessing lol. Haven't gone back yet since surgery but gonna try tomorrow. I usually do treadmill for 45 minutes on 3.0 and vary the incline throughout, then elliptical for 10 minutes ( I really suck at the elliptical), then I do 2 sets of 15 reps on 4 different arm machines. I go to planet fitness and I'm pretty sure their trainers help for free, but I just gotta work up the courage to ask.

Wow really?? I'm jealous. What type of diet are you following? I've been liquids only last 3 weeks but today I'm trying cream oh wheat and pudding.

I got my band on 9/11/12. So far, so good. I just tried some cream of wheat for the first time mixed with Protein powder...... Not as good as I thought it would be, but was nice to feel something a little more solid in my stomach. At first I was so afraid to even drink anything taking these little baby sips, but honestly I've realized I really don't think I have any restriction but haven't had a fill yet. Has anyone had their first fill???? Was wondering if there's a big difference?

I don't think you guys are selfish at all. Getting healthier will only benefit your family. I stayed overnite in the hospital and was glad for it because the nausea I felt. I think if you could get someone to help you out for about 3 days you'll be good to go. You should just need a little help due to soreness, otherwise I was up and walking around, doing dishes, etc by the second day. If I were you, I'd tell the 13 year old soon so he's prepared that he might have to help out with the baby for a few days for you ,since I don't think you should lift her for a few days. When I was 13 I was taking care of my younger siblings so I think he could handle it, especially since you'll be there to help him. Good luck to both of you!

I took off 3 weeks because I'm a lazy betch lol. No really it's because I'm a nurse and am scared to do any heavy lifting right now. Plus, there is rarely a break and I would feel overwhelmed with that right now while I try to figure out my diet. Just take off what feels right for you. This is our time

Are you on blood pressure medication? I had to cut down on mine because my BP has dropped down and was makin me dizzy an lethargic.

Yeah I'd go with tramadol.

They gave me the disposable stretchy kind with a pad inside, after I protested.

Oohhh maybe that is what's wrong then. I'm using my iPhone at the moment. Ok well guess I'll have to wait to see the other forums till I can get to my laptop :/ Thanks for the response.

Why do some parts of this forum require a password to view it? How does one get the password? Is there a secret handshake?

Yes I did. Hmmm. I guess I'll try again later.

Yeah I got weighed in again at my consultation. And The nurse practitioner there told me to make sure I didn't gain any weight even though my monthly weigh ins were over because a patient gained 15 lbs prior to thief surgery and said doc and/or insurance made them restart the whole 6 month diet doc again!!! So be careful!

That's crazy how that girl is talking to you!!! I'm glad u reported her for being so disrespectful. I was approved in 6 days by my insurance, even though docs office said it could take a month. Not sure why she thinks you'll be denied but I wish u the best of luck.

It gets better. The first 2 days I was weak and had a headache but then those symptoms resolved. I'm not gonna lie and say you won't be hungry at all, but if u keep busy and drink ur shakes its doable! I like the Bariatric fusion chocolate mousse shakes the best. And sugar free jello really helped when I felt starving, because the solidness felt good in my tummy. Sometimes a drink won't cut it. Good luck to you. Don't give up or cheat! I thought I would break down but honestly have not cheated once in 3 weeks. Pretty proud of myself!

I am right there with ya. One week post op and I'm starving too but it's usually at nite. I keep dreaming of eating food and wake up in a panic because I think I really cheated for a minute lol. Can't believe I haven't eaten in 3 weeks but honestly it's not as bad as I thought it would be. We got this one more week till mushies!

Isn't it exciting?! I was over the moon when I got my approval Your times comin quick, get ready!

So when and if we get stuck, is it just a "wait it out" kinda thing? We shouldn't drink to try to flush it down?

Goingfoit, the last couple days I've tried saving my last Protein Shake for an hour before I go to bed. I'm a second shifter so am used to having my "dinner" when I came home from work around midnite so I thought that might help me a bit. Last 2 nites it seemed to help a little. I also keep a drink next to my bed to sip on in case maybe it's just dehydration. Anyway, I guess I thought the band around my stomach would make me not feel hungry??? Umm, huge reality check. Hopefully after our first fill it will be different....

Hi everyone. New here but am just feeling very lonely, scared, anxious. Wondered if anyone else has ridden this roller coaster ride of emotions? I had Lapband surgery on 9-11-12 and the whole 6 month preop process I was so excited and determined and convinced that THIS is the solution I've been looking for! So for months my mind & heart have been in overdrive just dreaming all the new things I will finally be able to experience when I lose weight. The list is gigantic and full of dreams both large and small, since even though I'm 34 and have lived life a huge girl I have managed to be invisible for quite some time. Funny, that. Of course, this is my fault too I know because my shell is pretty unbreakable. But anyway, now the surgery is done, and has seemed to go very well for me thus far this week, which I am so thankful for. But now I look at this list (yes I made a list of everything I wanna do like a nerd) and instead of feeling happy and excited like before, now I feel anxious and scared. Scared that I'm fooling myself that I could possibly have this life where I bungee jump, fall in love, get a license, have friends, learn to swim... just so many things I've missed. What if I fail at this? Where does this leave me? What if I'm a success at weight loss, but still too chicken **** to take a damn risk?! Can anyone relate???