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I just got some Big Train in the mail. Sooo yummy! I tried the mocha and loved it. Can't have it for a while after surgery, but it'll be something to look forward to in the winter.

It's me, Amy, your sleeve sister. I changed my name on this site.

As a pre-op I appreciate hearing from all perspectives. It's important to know the good, the bad, and the ugly. Thanks to all of you for sharing your stories. Isajck and lulu girl, I hope in a month when you check in that you are happier with your decisions.

Thanks for answering. Can you tell I'm getting close and starting to worry about the little things like scars?

You will be in my prayers! Keep us posted.

Woo hoo! Congrats!

Just curious. If it's traditional, is it 5 scars? I already have several from my gall bladder removal, so I don't kow why it really matters, but I'm curious...

I have a couple of work dresses but want to get at least one more casual dress for the flight home. I also picked up a couple of sports bras that hook in front. When I had a breast reduction it made them easier to put on and off. I have heard underwire bras may rub the incisions.

It is hard to decide. There are so many talented surgeons. All I can suggest is research as much as you can and go with your gut. I was torn between two, both have good reps, and woke up one morning positive about who I felt most comfortable with. Nothing toward the other surgeon. My heart was set on the one I chose. When I read stories like this about lying by the pool at the Marriot I get a little envious. I will be in a hospital until I go home. However, I still feel like I made the best choice for me and my body.

It's actually nice to have a choice. Under insurance you have to take whoever is contracted with your insurance. When I had emergency gall bladder surgery, I got the surgeon on call.

Remember, it's your health, mental comfort, and money. I took a piece of paper and put each surgeons name and pros and cons, It was easier once I decided what I didn't want: For me, San Diego is closer than Texas so cheaper flight and no having to change planes. I know I will just want to get home ASAP. Maybe I'm a snob, but the idea of a clinic in a strip mall concerned me, so he was out. And so on.., Then I just prayed about the last 2 choices and here I am, scheduled for 8/31. No pool but comforable with my choice :-)

Hope you have a safe flight and surgery. Keep us posted.

Yay! Congrats to you! You're doing great!

Those are all great ideas. I just want to suggest bringing the sample size packets of Protein powder you can get at Vitamin shop and online. That way they are in a permanently closed package in case you get a super-vigilent TSA agent who doesn't like zip-lok bags. I saw it happen in the Dulles airport a couple of months ago. If you have enough time, chike and mybariatricpantry shipped them next day and I had them in about 3 days. I didn't use fast track shipping. unjury took a couple days longer.

I'm not knocking TSA. My good friend works for homeland security and he has seen some scary stuff people try to bring on. They are just trying to do their job and keep everyone safe.

I really hope that happens for me. I don't want to have the cravings for sweets that I have now. I've eaten enough Cookies and m&ms to last me the next 42 years. I really, really, REALLY want to get to goal and stay there without having to deal with the cravings anymore. Or at least be able to control them, rather than be controlled by cravings.

I know what you mean. I'm so glad I found this site as well. It's great to get so much input and advice from those whose are travelling with us and those who have already paved the road.

You look amazing! I like how now you have your head up proudly :-)

I agree with rdoactv. My surgeon (and most of the surgeons from Mexico) have done more sleeves than the top 4 physicians in my area combined. It would be $23000 to have it here compared to $8750 with a surgeon with more experince.

Glad you're doing so well. I'm scheduled for 8/31 in Mexico as well.

I know the stall at week 3 is normal (until it's me at week 3 and I panic LOL) and I have heard that after a large loss like 10 pounds your body may stall again as it "resets". I'm pre-op, but from what I;ve read, you're right on track.

Wow, that smile lights up a room! You look amazing! Thank you so much for sharing,

P.S. Best thread EVER!!!! :wub:

So I want to add to the theory ..could it be that the 40 year old 1) does want a man with more stamina ..that was already mentioned..but I also think 2) its because the 40 year old woman who is divorced is tired of putting up with the bs of the older men, so of course..go with a younger man....and have your "fun time" ..and now that the 40 year old woman is done having her fun with him for the evening ...he can go home!!!! Get out of my house! Just a thought!

I gotta agree with this one. I'm 42 and I don't want anything more than a fun night or maybe if he's REALLY good, a weekend. So many guys my age want to settle down and stay a while. Nope, keep it moving! Maybe in my 50's that will change, but right now I like my own place and space.

Good to know. I do okay dating, but sometimes just having him see me naked makes me so uncomfortable I find a reason to end the relationship before it ever gets that far.

Yay! So happy for you! I am dreaming of boots that will go over my calves. Thanks for the thinspiration :-)

Wow! You are rocking that sleeve!

Hi Oconnell,

The link above in this thread (for Dr Aceves patients) has helpful info for all sleevers.