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You are absolutely correct. The scale doesn't reflect our worth! I know ppl who have that posted on their scale. This is what I weigh, but this does not define me.Yeah!

Great idea! I use to be a TOPs leader and it is great, cheap support. I only stopped b/c at the time I had two young children at home and meetings were at night. They do have meetings during the day in a lot of places.

Donna, I truly understand the knee pain. I'm currently awaiting knee replacement. I know some ppl here who have had the same knee problems as me and they are telling me once they hit 150 lbs, they no longer need surgery and they go to the gym and workout like crazy. I'm counting on that and trying to exercise the best I can, even if its just strolling around a store or park. Yea, it hurts, but it is getting better. I also believe that food addiction is just like any other addiction, but I also believe that no one can beat that addiction unless their soul catches up with their head. We can say we want to quit, but deep in our heart, we don't want to, we like the feelings we get from it and then get upset we fail and medicate it again with our addiction. A vicious cycle. The ones that beat their addiction are the ones that go cold turkey and thats how I am with my sweets, just don't touch them,period. I use to smoke and until I said no matter what my head wants, my heart says NO. With food its the same thing, my head is saying I need it, I want it, even though I'm saying I want to lose weight. When I have those feelings, I do find other things to do. It can be as simple as sitting outside and enjoying the beauty God has put in front of us. Its free! Our earth is an amazing thing. Get in touch with it. Birds,plants,animals,the sky moving across the universe, the sounds of nature. LOL, at night I even go check out the stars and night life. Its free 24-7! IMO, you need to get out of the house. Go to a park or bench outside of a store and tell anyone walking by "good morning", beautiful day isn't it or just a smile. You know you can really bless someone with just a smile and in turn bless yourself. Its free! I hope you don't take this as judgemental, I want to help you. Its just what I've found works for me. Give, it will be given unto you! You know mom means well and she wants to help you the best she can.lol just like me. Hence, the gym membership. It really wouldn't hurt to talk with a trainer and tell them your issues and see if they can work around them, before signing up. What have you got to loose. Gets you out of your house.

You can bring your own stuff, or I just look for high Protein foods, chicken, burgers , vegtables and I do allow myself a tsp of whatever I want, just so I don't sit and crave it. Just a taste, not a meal.lol Its all about eating healthy portions and choices, not depriving ourselves. Also this is a time to learn that gatherings with friends and family are about being with friends and family, not about food.

Thats exactly what I thought of when I read the title to your thread. We Are The Champions! Have a wonderful Memorial Day weekend, Sharon! God Bless

That is fantastic! Welcome to the forum. Will be watching for your success story. I was just at my drs yesterday, for a fill. I was telling him about my time on this board and he said " I'm really happy you are on the forum, support is very important in succeeding". Good Luck on your journey!

Can't say that I have. I hope things go well for you now. My Dr is very conservative and would not do any fills until I was 6wks post op. I do know a girl on here, who did have this same issue. I think her Dr had given her a 5cc fill at surgery. Some Drs want to get you to restriction right away, but with swelling from surgery,IMO, I don't think its fair to put you through u fills right aftef surgery. That has to hurt. Best wishes

LMAO.... Love the puppy!

I agree what the others have told you and I wish you all the best. My question is, have you continued with your support meeting, either here or somewhere else? I think we could really help you, supporting you here and I hope you stick around . Good Luck!

Nerves are a normal phase to LBS. There'd be something wrong with you, if you weren't a little nervous about the changes you're about to face. Just know, its worth it! Try to keep your mind on the knew and improved, healthier you. About cleaning out closets and drawers dozens of times ( think I've done that approx 7times now). Keep your mind on the positive!

Sorry bout that, but glad I am not alone.

Welcome to the forum! Glad to have you here. This journey is easier with support and it actually makes it easier to be supportive too. Will be happy to watch your success. Best wishes

He sounds like a keeper, Steph. Might want to tell him about the weight loss and libido thread.lol Glad they have your back. I'm also excited you are sharing your journey with us. Best wishes on your pre-op diet.

Anynway to re enforce the nest? b/c if it does fall, it is your fault, no doubt.

Yes, call your Dr. There is a possiblity you have a slip. Anytime your throat or esophugus burns, is not a good sign. Acid erosion can be serious.

Couldn't have said it any better or to the point as Missy. The tool is our helper. If I didn't have it, I woukd have given up on my diet, yet again.

<----- LOL, still waiting. Maybe 56yo is over the hill.

Welcome to the forum! Sounds like you had a busy life since being banded.lol How's your mom doing with her band? You are right when you say, you have to do the work. The band is only a tool that we have to learn to use properly. Congratulations on getting back in game. Wish you all the best. Stick around, they say that ppl that stay with a support group, does better then thise who go it alone. Invite mom to join us too.

I had thoughts just like you, before banding. Like you, didn't want good parts cut up. LB can be reversed. As far as longevity of band, trusting God, all I can do. 100 times yes, I would do it again in a heart beat. Only wish I could have had it when I was younger. Really enjoying it now!

Gotcha covered friend! Try not to think about "what ifs", think about "the new healthier me". woohoo!

BTW, great blog and I hope those having trouble, take the time to read it.

Sounds like you had an epiphany. You go girl! You can do this. You have identified where your problems are and are beginning to work on them. So proud of you!

Sounds like your sinus drainage has caused tightness in your band. You're doing the right thing, by calling your Dr. You might need a slight unfill. Good luck, keep us posted

A quote from the pros " it takes along time for our heads to catch up to our bodies". So what you're feeling is normal. All I can say is WTG! You're doing great.