maziemommy

Hang in there.. it will come.

Good advice.. In my -not so proud past- I too have passed tests, that I clearly should have failed... I have requested at my cost a "hair" test in advance. $140 I don't really have. But it may be her life saver. It sure can't hurt.

You get what you pay for... not this time. You get out, what you put in... totally! I follow all the rules some of the time, and most of the rules most of the time. I am successful one day, and one choice, at a time. I used to be a failure all day, every day. Good luck and great health to all!!!!

I -right now- always want him to be her parent... just ....not my husband. I'm glad I've already worked through most of the pre-D bitterness. lol Still time to post any other ideas/advice/experiences!!!!!???????????????

My fav. so far!! You look soooo beautiful!

Thanks so much everyone! Anyone else have 2 cents, before D day?

Does Cox even do bands? Never heard they do or do not. Just curious?

Thank you, thank you, thank you! woooohooooo!

Megan,It worked... & That ticker will be closer to goal in NO time! It will go faster than you think... Good luck and great health!

Drink more Water, eat peanuts, prunes, fruit etc... I stay "regular" by diet... not by meds. Good luck and... I hope everything works itself out-so to speak.

Thank you all very much. Keep the information coming.... it is all very helpful. It has been a long hard road, with mixed feeling and thoughts. All of our 15 years together (9 married) it is the same story... I will stop using when XXXXXXX happens.... etc. XXXXXX always happens but, he has never stopped using. Like when, we get married, I won't use again, when we have the baby, I will stop (miscarried).... when Mazie comes I would never use when we have a child, I am getting a different job, we need to move to the bigger house.....on and on. 5 houses, and three pregnancies (1 child) later...... we have seen two counselors, and still the same stories/lies. The RX are not always his, or mine, or his Mom's, or his SILaw....etc. I'm not completely innocent.... before 2002 I used Marijuana too. But thought we were on the same page, when we have a family things will be very different. I grow up, and he grew bitter?

I have been a stay at home Mom, since pregnancy, money is a factor... but I'm working on some "creative financing" for a lawyer. I think she is a good one... she is also works as a child advocate. Thank you... I know that will help me out.

I love his parents very much. And they love him very much but, I think they are in serious denial too. They know that he has used marijuana... in the past... but not sure that they are truly aware of how bad, that, and his Rx issues, have become. Can I ask to court to test him, for documentation? Any experience/advice is welcome. :teeth_smile:

48#- gone-wooohoooo! That's looks about half way to me! Congrats!

I hope you didn't think I meant a 2 year old substance abuser? My daughter-Mazie- is 2, beautiful and innocent. My husband is 40 years old, and abuses substances. I worry about our child being affected by his issues, and our troubles. I am trying to protect her.

pos? neg? Now my curiosity is killing me.

Thinking of you, and wishing you well. I will send prayers.

My 2 cents- 1 year post op- I would do it again in a minute. I love being banded.