I have PCOS... I have tried every type of diet, pill, etc and still gain. Had a hysterectomy at 34 and 3 pulmonary embolisms when pregnant with my daughter.. Im 375-390lbs and I eat right and dont drink cokes, etc. I have no self esteem and hate having relations with my husband. Im so tired, depressed, and no one listens(doctors). I have BCBS of Tn, do they cover lap band? I cant afford out of pocket, dont do credit, loans due to my ex-husband. What can I do? Any ideas? I have 2 beautiful kids and a wonderful hubby... I want to be healthy again. ty!