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I "was" a Diet Mountain Dew addict. I was banded 1 week ago and yuck. It doesn't tasted the same and instant "blotation" device. I now do Crystal Light Lemonade, and Crystal Light Wild Strawberry w Energy, the latter has caffeine in it. I'm excited to try the wine, I was always a beer kind of girl but not even going to try with all the bubbles aka redneck Champaign. Good Luck!
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Thanks everyone for the info, the nurse is unsure, well she's unsure of just about everything, lol not judging Nurses work hard for sure. Maybe when they called to schedule my 1st fill, they really meant to say post-op visit? We are only human, for now anyway. I will find out Thursday at 1:30pm (believe that) !
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I have a call in to the nurse. I have lost around 25 pounds since May, banded on June 26. I only had liquid diet for one week but I am walking like crazy! Thanks everyone!
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How do you feel about a mosque at "Ground Zero"?
velvetbuckle replied to loserbob's topic in Rants & Raves
My father is Egyptian and my mother is Iranian. I have been all around the world sir, maybe you should try it sometime? Christians have killed more people in the name of Jesus than any other sect in the world, read a book. -
How do you feel about a mosque at "Ground Zero"?
velvetbuckle replied to loserbob's topic in Rants & Raves
The people who flew the planes into the buildings were "extremists" at best. Islam is a very peaceful religion, quit drinking the kool aid people are feeding you and get the facts. Does this mean because Timothy McVeigh bombed the Federal Building in Oklahoma City, in God's name and being a Christian we should have a flogging if there is a Christian church built in the vicinity? I wish people would stop judging entire religions on the acts of some, most serial killers scream from the rooftops they did it in the name of Jesus and/or God, does this make all Christians serial killers? Your logic makes no sense. -
When Did You Get Your First Fill?
velvetbuckle replied to newskinnygal's topic in LAP-BAND Surgery Forums
Wow, My band was placed June 26 and I have my first fill July 5, which by my genus math skills makes it 9 days post-op. Is that too early? -
Day 5 Shaken Not Stirred...mad But Not Angry-Can You See Me?
velvetbuckle posted a blog entry in velvetbuckle's Blog
Holla fellow bandmates! Welcome to my Day 5, so glad you could make it. Today is a great day, I have minimal discomfort and if I HAD to I most certainly could go to work tomorrow. The past 6 days seem a jumble in my mind. I remember driving to the hospital, I remember the liquid courage before surgery. I remember the post-op and the nurse combing my hair back into a ponytail. I remember slightly more than that until Thursday. I went to the grocery store and over did it, I had a bad night that 2nd night and paid for it with not being able to get comfortable. I took it easy on Friday, went outlet shopping yesterday, and today I went to Walmart for about 1 1/2 hours. (doesn't everybody?) I also spent around $60, it always seems to end up being around $60 no matter how good my intentions are, no matter what I need to replenish or just get for the hell of it. I've been trying to familiarize myself with this site and it is slow going. I don't know if it's just me not being able to navigate around it so easy, or if it just has too much stuff to delve into at once. I do know this on my short time here, if you have a question about anything, and I mean ANYTHING, chances are someone here has been there, done that, and has the tattoo to prove it. I guess that's the point isn't it? It's a great thing to be able to cyber gather with "like" people not only finding people close to us, but in the same state, country, and yes, all over the world, simply amazing to be able to share our stories, our lives, our hopes and dreams, the good and the bad, when we know better, we should do better! Thank you bandmates that have come before us, went through trials and tribulation, pain and agony, laughter and tears so that we may find comfort in your defeat as well as rejoice in your accomplishments, again we thank you! I have yet to have anything but water, crystal light, coffee, and vanilla protein since Tuesday. I may get a little crazy tonight and splurge on some chicken broth, I'm edgy like that don't you know! If I sound redundant in my writings it's because I never reread or edit my posts before I hit the publish button. This may be obvious to some of you because I can only imagine all my grammatical errors, and for those I will just apologize across the board right now, please forgive me. I don't even know if anyone reads my "blog". I know at least 4 people have because you have commented and I received a notification telling me. I had my surgery Tuesday, June 26, 2012 and I am scheduled for my first fill July 5, 2012 That makes my first fill just 9 days after my band placement and hernia repair, I can tell you are dazzled by my mathematical abilities from that difficult equation. Looking through this site, it sounds like that's a tad bit early. Today was the first day I got an actual hunger pain, no worries I splashed it into oblivion with protein. I noticed some of you all didn't get filled for a few weeks, up to a few months. Everyone's different, no truer statement. Have I mentioned that through this I have still had to prepare meals for my 2 teenage boys? Well, I have and I do. Just because I have a road to go down doesn't mean I have to drag them through the pot holes with me. Sure, I could have sent them out for fast food everyday but that's an oxymoron kind of, don't you think? "Mom had the twisty tie surgery to lose weight, so we have to eat out so in a decade or so we can do the same thing!" Uh, I don't freaking think so! I pre-made some lean BBQ chicken, roast and potatoes, and had lean turkey and ham on hand for sandwiches so they wouldn't starve, teenage boys are always starving! Today I actually cooked (over the stove mind you) for the first time since my banding. What's for supper? So glad you asked! I made spaghetti, I nixed the garlic bread because like the rest of the country I don't want to turn my oven on because it's freaking too HOT! Tonight was the first time in a long time I didn't eat while cooking. You guys know what I mean, I used to call it "tasting" but the truth is I was eating, and eating a lot. I may not serve myself a plate, so to speak, at dinner time, twisting my mind into thinking "I don't even eat dinner!" I know the truth, I ate dinner whilst cooking it, and during that process I'm sure it would be equivalent to seconds and sometimes thirds. Well anyway I went passed that first hurdle. I cooked the lean ground beef and drained it, then I took a small tidbit and put it in my mouth. This is especially strange because I loathe beef. I chewed and chewed then I spit it into the trash. Real sexy and ladylike huh? Needless to say, ground beef still tastes like crap and I didn't even attempt that with the penne, nor the sauce I'm just not ready to test the water nor gamble regarding food at this time. Onward and Upward Bandmates, come from a place of gratitude instead of entitlement. Lo & Behold... -
How Do You Handle The Naysayers?
velvetbuckle replied to Anch's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I have told only a few people, I would like to shout it out loud but a friend who had hers 5 years ago has advised me against it. It kind of makes me feel unauthentic. She stated "It's a tool, and it's no ones business" She is now a nutritionist and a personal trainer and only a handful of people know. She has worked hard for her new body no doubt and she doesn't want the "Anyone can lose if they have the surgery" She had it removed earlier in the year, it wasn't filled for the prior year at all. I'm still undecided and really doesn't matter to me what people think, if they don't pay my bills I don't pay them no mind! My sister had the bypass and has denied it from the beginning, then lies straight out stating she dieted and exercised like a freak-what a crock, but it's everyone's personal decision. -
Day 3 Postop And Not Feeling Good.
velvetbuckle replied to lucypets's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Sounds like you may be dehydrated friend, you need to drink, slowly and consistently, I am 5 days out and haven't been nauseous. I did gas x chewables, either way call your Dr in the morning, they will know what to tell you for sure! Good luck friend. -
Day 5 Shaken Not Stirred...mad But Not Angry-Can You See Me?
velvetbuckle commented on velvetbuckle's blog entry in velvetbuckle's Blog
Yes! I found it again after I threw a baby fit typical of a 5 year old. Then I couldn't find where I posted that I lost it in the first place, the lesson is just like I wrote about, I need to learn my way around better. Thanks for reading, and thanks for the Good lick lol... -
Hospital Stay? Out Of Work?
velvetbuckle replied to Krolso's topic in Tell Your Weight Loss Surgery Story
I was on the table at 4:15pm and in recovery at 6:00pm. I was home by 8pm, this is my 5th day post-op and am currently on "vacation", however depending on your profession, I would give it at least 7 days, I could go to work today if need be though! Good Luck! -
Surgery Verses Something Like Optifast
velvetbuckle replied to ren0318's topic in LAP-BAND Surgery Forums
I struggled with my decision for 5 years. I was by my ex-husbands side during his bypass, he was older and had gained 100 pounds after our divorce. His brother passed away at age 45 due to complications of obesity. His other brother is also 500 pounds plus. After going through everything with him, seminars, Dr appts, group meetings etc I decided to lose 50 pounds myself, and I did! I watched what I ate and walked-walked-walked! It took 2 years but I did it! Fast forward 2 years later and you guessed it, it came back. In the meantime my sister had the bypass and I don't know how she passed the psych eval, she's 2 years post-op and sucking down Big Macs and pizza and either vomiting it after eating, or going into a deep depression. My decision came in January when I surrendered that yes, I could lose the weight again, but needed a stronger and better tool to keep the weight off for good. Plus over the years it takes a toll on my body to yo-yo like that. I'm not saying that you will gain the weight back, just sharing my story. Whatever you decide will be the best for you, know one knows you like you know yourself! Good Luck, Onward & Upward!!! My BMI wasn't that high and my Dr LISTENED to me and said I would be a great candidate, I'm out to prove him right! -
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From the album: Surgery Day
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I have posted pictures from my surgery day, including a few shots of my incision sites.
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Home after surgery, possibly graphic for some
velvetbuckle posted a gallery image in Member Photo Gallery
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Me right when I got home, as you see I have 5 bandages, 6 if you count IV site. I hope it isn't inappropriate, but if you want to know-here it is. -
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There we go, now I'm smiling. The fabulous "liquid courage" works wonders!-
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Chest Pain/shortness Of Breathe
velvetbuckle replied to cmoody821's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Hey Girl! I was banded on tuesday and was also told I had a large hernia repair. I couldn't take a real deep breath until this morning. I never received one of those breathing mechanisms but I know what youre talking about, my friend got one when he got his bypass 3 years ago. I have had several scope surgeries and looking back on all of them it did take a while to breath deeply. My 5 sites of entry do not resemble a 12 oclock, my nurse sd healing is slightly different with hernia repair, I never knew I had one either. It's my understanding it's quite common. My biggest issue 5 days out is sometimes I feel my heart beat through where I assume the band has been placed, like when I stand too fast, or sit down quickly. Good Luck and Onward and Upward! -
Anyone Suffer From Anxiety While They Were Still Fat?
velvetbuckle replied to Nicci's topic in LAP-BAND Surgery Forums
I have had anxiety for over 20 years. I was on anti-depressants for years, until after awhile I finally got a Dr to listen and guess what? I wasn't depressed, it was anxiety! I was prescribed a small dose of xanax and take it when necessary. It has made a big difference, especially when I thought I was having heart attacks! My heart is great. I feel a little chest tightness when I do my walking, then I start letting my mind go into freak out mode, I continue walking and it goes away! So I decided it was my lungs getting used to me "really breathing" instead of just doing it involuntarily. Everyone is different, that's why we are individuals! Onward and Upward my friend! -
Holla people of the banding! It is Day 4 post-op for me. In my previous entries, I used hours-no more, I shall use days from now on because 1. Adding 24 to everything gets on my nerves 2. I'm just not that good at math Today was a fabulous day for me, I took it easy yesterday after overdoing it on Day 2, so Day 3 I mainly rested, read, watched TV and thought how long is my stomach going to look so bloated? Isn't that an odd thing to ponder? I'm fat, but I don't want to look unnecessarily bloated! Pretty ridiculous, anyway that's how I felt. I have only taken 2 pain pills today, which is good because I was starting to fondly imagine them being M&M's. I continue to fall in love with my Crystal Light Lemonade and drink about 20-30 oz of protein today. I have yet to feel a hunger pain, or think about food in an unhealthy way, does no good so I will not waste my brain cells on disgusting greasy food that I no longer like, and Lord knows it doesn't like anybody! Today I woke up feeling 99% better. My pain is minimal and seems to be concentrated to lower left and lower right side of my abdomen. There are no sutures or bandages there, that's just where it hurts for me, again, this may be from the hernia repair I just don't know. The important part is that it is getting better and better every day. I went shopping at Old Navy today, we have an outlet close to my city. I purchased 4 or 5 pair of terry cloth shorts that have a drawstring and they are the shiznet, especially in this heat. I looked upon some bathing suits and told them I would definitely be seeing them next year, maybe every style! I came home and walked 1 mile and took a shower, I feel great! I still havent tried to put solid food in my mouth, I'm uncertain if my Dr put any restriction or not when he placed it, but the way I feel now, I don't need it yet. I want to thank everyone on this site, you guys are truly the only one's who understand, I thank you and am grateful for you everyday. Tomorrow is Day 5 and I'm excited about each and everyday that I'm alive. I'm also thankful I chose the band and not the bypass, it was the better decision for me. So here I am on Saturday night feeling anxious and happy about my future. I wonder when I can enjoy a glass of wine? I know they're empty calories but I still want a glass. I'm sure beer is out of the question, I don't like beer anyway. I will have Crystal Light Strawberry Kiwi and pretend, I'll put it in a wine glass! Lo & Behold!!!
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