readytobbetter30

I'm 30.and a mother of 3. I've seriously struggled with my weight since my.last child. I'm currently 205 and with a Bmi of 31. Trying to see if this would be the right choice for.me. I seriously work out and even have been on serious diet meds but nothing seems to.keep the weight off me.. so this seemed like the.next option. I only want to lose 60-65 pounds. Is it possible to lose just a certain amount? I'm scared I.will get way to skinny. Any advice would be wonderful!!!