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That was me. My wife was 4 weeks post op. She was extremely tight. I could not penetrate the first time we tried, but we kept trying and eventually yes we were able to, but it has been tight still, but getting better every time.

Goal and CG...lighting the fires of inspiration and motivation! You girls rock it everyday and I'm glad to have you as buddies. Getting my butt in gear and taking this day on!

So I am about 2 and 1/2 weeks post-op. Wife is 4 weeks post-op. We had sex for the first time yesterday and she was so tight that it was actually uncomfortable. Do you guys think this was due to the surgeries, the month without sex, or a combination of both? I sure hope it gets better because I could not penetrate.

Bad girls, bad girls...Whatcha gonna do when they come for you! Lol

No worries! We got it done and its all good now...actually great!

You're very welcome!

I'm not going into any restaurants unitl I'm further along in my surgery...with no fill yet, I would be too tempted. So I'll wait....whe I do go back though it will be protein and produce...I'm done with the unhealthy stuff.

Thank you for sharing your story and welcome back!! I wish you the best with your reacquainted journey!

I like Jay Robb's Whey Protein powder in chocolate. No bad after taste and tastes just like Ovaltine to me! Yum!

Yes that day off in the middle of the week is brutal! I enjoyed the day, but holy crap it messes with the body clock. For some reason I kept thinking today was Friday. Now go work out before I crack the whip! WHHAAA PPISSSHHH!

Way to go!! I only lost 4, I think.

I had liquid pain meds when I came home, but I think I may have only take 3-4 doses in 3 days...I just really wasn't feeling that much pain.

You RAWK! I can't wait for that to be me!

Well said CG! I couldn't have put it better myself.

Hiya Lem! Congrats and welcome! Always great to see another starting this wonderful journey! You'll find buddies-a-plenty here!

I didn't cry, but I did have some emotionally charged moments. Mine was due to the realization that I was truly addicted to food. It will pass and you'll soon be feeling good and spreading the joy!

TJ, most of the guys I hang out with are actually envious and/or very supportive, but they aren't the most masculine fellas either..lol Most of my friends are sci-fi comic book geeks such as myself. The only callouses I ever get on my hands are from playing guitar...lol! I actually think it takes a much stronger man to be able to make a lifestyle change that you and I have chosen...So next time challenge them to drink liquids for 5 days, survive being stabbed 5 -6 times, and then control your eating the way we have to. Now THAT is a MANLY MAN! *high five*

Why do nice guys finish last? It's just one of those mysteries of the universe that will never be solved.

What helped me get through and deal with the gas pain was walking...Short walks taken frequently. I took 15-20 steps every 30 or 40 mins. Just walked around the couch or around the island in the kitchen. Great stuff! Wishing you a speedy recovery..it will get better!