I'm ticked at my co workers, too. Another girl in the office got flowers when she went for her sleeve. I made sure I told everyone I was going for the surgery, and that my 30th birthday would be a couple days after. I got jack. Not sure if the morale committee dropped the ball or what. Hoping they at least remembered my birthday card for when I get back tomorrow.
It's way more sucky in your situation, though!!! I agree with buying yourself a bouquet!