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I'm wonering if anyone on here has tried this meal replacement shake. It sounds like a good one, but I'm always weary so I thought I'd ask. I'm not banded yet, still fighting with insurance, but I like to have shakes for breakfast when I'm in a hurry.

I spent an hour with the psychologist and then brought home a sheet of about 300 questions. It was pretty painless. She asked questions about my family and what kind of realtionship I have with them. General questions about the surgery like what do I know about it and why did I decide on wls. What kind of support system did I have. The questionare had some ridiculous questions and some questions were repeated 2 or 3 times in different sections. She did warn me about that and told me just to answer them without thinking too much.

I think the 15-20% rule applies as with hair salon services. I always give $3-$4 on a $20 pedicure. I mean if you feel she really did a great job, then tip what you feel is fair. That was really cool of you.

We don't know each other but I just had to tell you that NO ONE should have to go through this. By what you said about having no money and who would want someone your age it sounds like your self esteem has been affected. Let me just say 42 is NOT old and if you had a career where you made 50k a year it must mean that you are educated and/or have some employment skills. People do not die from being single. You can get a job. Your assests will have to be split, and it sounds like there are plenty. Do you have someone you can talk to, a friend, a Pastor, someone who can help you get through it? Again, I don't know you or your whole situation but I felt you needed some support and some tell it like it is. Good luck.

Uniqueone - you get my drift!!!

I did have a sleep study done about a year and a half ago and everything was within normal range. I just recently had my labs done for my surgeon and my PCP has them, I could call her and see what she says. What sucks is that at one point I was on 2 meds for the hypertension and I started exercising like a maniac and she was able to take me off of one. Although she supported my decision to have the surgery and she wrote the letter for me I really don't think she approves. Which, actually, it's not her job to approve or not so I can try her out. I also have an appt with my endocrinologist on Friday, I haven't seen her since I made the decision to be banded so not sure what her thoughts will be but she may be able to help too. I wrote this really quick, I hope it all made sense, gotta get to work. Thanks to everyone.

Lili, thank you. I'm sorry to hear about your insurance problems. I just don't get it. I'm only 34 with hypertenstion, PCOS, high cholesterol, and insulin resistance. So what my future looks like to me is diabetes and heart disease. Ugh, makes no sense. I had totally given up for a while and thought self pay was the only way to go but I've got some fight back in me somehow and am ready for it. Good luck to your husband too!!!

For me it was being denied life insurance. I felt so rejected, I can't even really explain how I felt. Not to mention never feeling like going anywhere because I don't ever look the way I want. Always feeling uncomfortable and tired. This list could go on and on forever.

Joanne, Congratulations on your surgery. Hope your doing well. I'm glad to hear your story, makes me feel like I still have a hope. I will call my surgeon's office on Monday and see where I should start.

Congratulations!!! That's wonderful!:clap2:

Thanks for replying. I am looking into it, it may be my only option. It really does stink that I am trying to lose the weight so I can get off meds completely and they deny me because I'm not on enough meds. What also bites is that I try to eat healthy and exercise which is what probably kept me from having more problems and ends up biting me in the butt. Thanks again ladies.

I haven't been in here for a while. I received a denial from my insurance and have just been discouraged. I was denied due to only being on 1 med for hypertension and they only approve if your taking 2. Okay, I thought that was what I was trying to avoid. I feel like this is so stupid. Anyway, my Dr Office said they are still working on it but I know how insurance is and am not feeling very hopeful. It's like okay give me time to age and I'll be on more meds I'm sure then you'll approve me and what exactly is this accomplishing???? Sorry, little rant there. I'm thinking about self paying, but then what if I have complications, will I be responsible for paying for everything related to the band since they denied? Anyone know? Christel