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To my Fluffy friends, your progress and openess to post pics shows bravery, pride and success! I only had the one picture of me and my late Mom that I posted. But I think I'll take a pic of me now, then later, then later....just like you FLORIDAYS! I can be brave like you and Jlynn!

Yeah, I was surprised he did the replacements, and at my age. But I couldn't walk and my osteoarthritis put me at bone on bone. I tried all the various shots, physical therapy pre-surgey and meds. Nothing was working. Now I have just changed from one type of pain and disability for another. The YMCA costs $540.00 a year, and I don't have that. But it's my goal, believe me! I was going to switch to the Sleeve, to lose weight quicker (helping my knees out), but I won't do it. I like my band. Slow and steady wins the race in the lapband's case because you change you in that time. If I ever have to lose the band, I'll have at least learned how not to live in that time. Win/Win!

I'm 46, having had my TOM in almost a year. They say I am peri-menopausal. I am happy not having my TOM, I hope it never comes back! My Doc also said it could come back. Who knows?

Acknowledging that you've made poor food choices in the past is a good step, knowledge is key. But labeling yourself a failure is a bit harsh. If you fall into that trap, you'll believe it and then think to yourself that "since I'm already a failure, why bother trying?" You are not a failure, you're off course, in need of a nutritionist to explain proper eating, and you need a solid re-education of lap band living. Posting here was a wonderful first step!

Thanks FLORIDAYS... it's refreshing to hear from folks that were over 300, learning to walk all over again. If you guys can do it, then so can I!

I suffer from actual cravings as well as emotional hunger. You, you're only 2 weeks post-op, you have a world to lose if you give at this point. Later, through your journey, you'll find cheating on rare occassions won't be as dangerous as it would be now. I like to eat at night, so I do these things...log onto LBT and find that you're not alone and can always ask for help, I took to crocheting this massive blanket (not enough yarn, ahhh!...to keep my hands busy, read an inspirational book, go on facebook, play with my babies (cats and dog). It only works some of the time, I'll give in to a healthy snack like fruit, yogurt, etc. But I can most certainly relate to your craving! especially since your diet is so restricted right now. You automatically want what you cannot have. Create coping skills, use them and move on. Good Luck!

I finished the book in two days, I just couldn't put it down!

Missy: I'm very sorry to hear of the struggles you've been through, but happy to see that it never broke your Spirit! I took a walk to the end of my block which is only about an eigth of a mile, and that was enough for now. Like you all say, do what you can. I am. I 've been doing more walking as far as shopping, going to appointments, etc. I hope your metabolism kicks in for you real soon! Honk: I used to go to a hotel pool near my house, but they're gone. I had my big girl suit and didn't care who saw me. Hm, I'm afraid of people seeing me walk but not afraid of people seeing me in a bathing suit. Weird. Anyway, the local pool in my area cost's $540.00 a year to join. I don't and won't have that much $ soon. So as much as I'd LOVE, LOVE to swim, it can't happen. Carolina: Wow, what an inspiring story! You should be proud of yourself for pushing along. I can always count on you! Like I told Missy, I'm doing an 1/8th mile (estimate). I have an energetic little dog that I'd LOVE to walk, but she has a different view as to how to walk Mommy! Everybody: Thanks for all your heartfelt advice...I always know when I post here on LBT that I'll walk away with great support.

Thanks Missy, I was hoping you'd reply. You mentioned walking to the end of the street. I plan on doing that......actually, Banjo had a great idea (get away from familiar "eyes", like going to a park...Im going to do that) Anyway, you mentioned it got easier as you became lighter. Well, Missy, in all honesty, you are eons ahead of me (and most people) when it comes to weight loss and timely weight loss. My weight loss is slow, I'm barely getting lighter. I LOVE walking when it's cold out, which it is! I used to walk my previous dog at night, in the snow. We loved it! Was it really that hard for you? I look up to you because 1. You know what you are talking about. 2. You've lost SO much, and SO fast. 3. You're very diplomatic. You make it sound so easy. Me getting lighter is going to take longer than it does you. I wanna catch up, but I can't!

Oh I'm sure they will! If you're getting this kind of attention already, wait till you hit goal! RahRahRah!

I was banded in 07, unfilled since 08. I had "restriction" simply because the band was in place. I PB'd, Slimed and Vomitted over the years, just like some more "restricted" people. My band always reminded me it was there.

BandingMi, I would be so very happy if I ever got that comment. Shows you've done well at losing, but people can't see it. I think thats so cool!

It's wise to not go for fills that your surgeon doesn't think you need to do, or should do. You sound like you have a good understanding of the whole process! Good luck to you and your husband!

WOW! I LOVE iguana's! I especially love the forth picture of the Princess. I've heard of people, like Paris Hilton, taking their pups in their purses but this, I never imagined! LOL!

Bless you Missy! And, your word on the cc's is my command!

Well destynee, you were brave! If my head weren't attached, I'd have done the same thing!

BTW...you have all witnessed a major milestone in my life. Really. Thanks for helping me to "come out"

where is this picture?

Here's a pic of me and my Mom, before she passed away from breast cancer a year ago. Mom always wanted me to be thin, I intend to make her proud...

OK, here is a pic of my puppy that I've been using...and my new profile pic...as well as a pic of me and hubby....

This falls under cosmetic surgery, doesn''t it?

My surgeon (PA) goes slow. I've had an unfill for 4 years, and last month got a 1/2 cc in a 10 cc band. I actually noticed for a week or so (probably swelling) but def don't see it now. I don't go back for a month and a half. Should I ask for a full cc?

I guess my picture of my puppy is two things 1. She's so darned beautiful, she is my life and I want to show her off. 2. Its my way of hiding my face and body. Precisely to because I don't want someone seeing the unsuccess I might be having, or the slowness. 3. I'd rather see my dog's face than mine when I scroll down messages. BUT, in honor of the newness of self I am feeling, I will post a pic of me. Was hard to find one as everyone knows not to take pictures of me. But here goes...

Why, oh why are you uncomfortable with my puppy?

Thanks Missy for clearing that up with posting the labels. Sure shed light for me, even though I don't eat Nutella.