I was banded on 4-13-2012. I have lost 39lbs since then. I thought the lapband was going to be easy and make all my bad habits go away. I don't regret having it done, but it's definately a commitment. I still have to fight the cravings everyday. I failed on ww so many times I can't even count. I think if you can do it on your own great, but if not the lapband is the way to go. I can't believe how much better I feel just by losing 39lbs. I wish you and your b/f much luck.